Sorry ECMO3, you missed the point. I was discussing the athletics skill in a D&D game. You roll and add athletics. Inside athletics, you get to add your strength. If she were scaling a thirty-foot wall, that climber would beat 99% of the men. Why? Because she has part of the strength's ability definition: "athletic training" and "bodily power."
My response to you was that the strength ability in D&D is not tied to gender. They purposefully gave it a broad definition so as to allow for the non-hulk character. Therefore, when you ask:
The answer is no. Because that would limit a character. My suggestion was to expand a definition. To give players more choices. Hence, charisma should be more than eloquence, leadership, and confidence.