Isn't that what I said - we lost the ability to force our preferences on other people? That, as you say, for "a lot of people" they can only enjoy the game if other people are forced to play the way they want.
I have pretty much zero sympathy for those people. I'm sorry, but, I just don't care. Forcing other people to play a certain way so that I can enjoy the game is pretty much the opposite of everything I want out of a game. See, because you say,
but then insist that I MUST play the way you want to play or you won't enjoy the game. If that's what we lost? Well? Good. That wasn't worth keeping anyway.