As I said...
It goes both ways.
Which is why I felt this:
is the best way.
Okay, fine. You guys want to portray the side I’m on as being intolerant of other perspectives and wrong because of our surety that our way is right, and yours as the scrappy underdogs fighting against oppression. Sure. That’s precisely the sort of “co-opting inclusive sounding language” I was just talking about, but I’ll own it.
I am sure in my position that racism, sexism, and other bigotries that our hobby is rooted in are bad. That this is deeply embedded in our hobby. I believe perpetuating bigotry and the stereotypes associated with them is morally wrong. People that disagree with this simple statement that “bigotry is bad, and we should try to remove it from the hobby” are
at best burying their heads in the sand refusing to see reality. I will not say what the “at worst” is.
However, I take things on a case by case basis and make up my mind based on the discussion and evidence I’ve seen. I have been persuaded to see different perspectives and I have changed my opinion on certain issues because an argument convinced me. I am having difficulty recalling a single time when the anti-inclusive side did the same. This isn’t a case of WotC “going to far.” To most folk that oppose these changes made for inclusivity, they opposed all the changes made for inclusivity.
Phylacteries? I understand why WotC, Paizo, and Bethesda changed the word. I think it’s good for them to distance themselves from the term. I will probably continue calling it a Phylactery out of habit, but I think it’s good that they’re at least trying.