But I've never really thought about why gaming was disparaged until watching RPG Elite's video. It can't just be the Satanic stuff, right? Because nobody looked at me askance for listening to heavy metal back in the 80s nor did I try to hide it.
I suspect it really depends on where you lived.
I got into D&D at an “Intro” session hosted in my middle school library in Aurora, Colorado. We were all nerds (Duh) and had experienced bullying of some kind,
but none of it was D&D related. It may be because D&D wasn’t really on anyone’s radar, yet.
When I moved to Manhattan. Kansas a few years later, I found a bunch of other players and again- including Curly, my first other black gamer- we played a lot at school. I had another group I played with in my neighborhood. Just like in Colorado, nobody really picked on us because of gaming.
Gaming in Texas since the mid-1980s has been different, though. By the time I got here (as a HS freshman in a private Catholic school), the Satanic Panic was in full swing, and I had just discovered metal. Generally, among the kids, one was cool, one wasn’t; the parents were worried about both. Despite her misgivings, Mom didn’t
do anything to interfere with m interests in either. Some of my relatives (visiting from out of town) would talk about them both as “not black“ or “satanic”. I saw my first Chick tracts.
Amusingly, the monks let me start an RPG club. The only pushback on
either from faculty came from the art teacher who had become “born again“ mid-semester. But even that was minor. (We still talk to this day.)
I haven’t made a secret of my participation in the hobby, but also, I rarely bring it up. Occasionally I get the same old satanic pushback, almost always from mainline Protestants and Evangelicals. And that’s a big percentage of the local faith community,
I’ve only encountered Reason #5- overt racism from gamers- a few times,