Jeff Albertson
Explorer
This is an obvious miscommunication. That was not what I was saying. If you're a friend, you're going to cast the fly without them asking. If he's a friend, he's not going to demand it. If he's sitting there with his greatsword and lonely puppy eyes (just a joke), you want to give him a hand. My main point is I play at a table with my friends, thus I feel a natural inclination to assist them. Nothing is forced other than the parameters of the game system and our choice following them. My response was for those people telling me, "You don't have to do this" and other such excuses. Sure, I don't have to do it. I do it because they're my buddies and we're all trying to win. I'm sure you understand the natural inclination to assist your buddies when playing with a group of long time friends. I've known every guy at the table over twenty years. They do the same for me when they can without me asking.
Your table sounds more like an intimate, long-lasting, polygamous affair.