Urriak Uruk
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well that’s because drow in some settings were looked upon the same way as a beholder. It just depends where a critter is in the game. Basically the same as Daleks and demons. We really don’t negotiate with them unless we are desperate and they will probaly backstab and cheat you the first chance they get.
I mean, sure they're sometimes viewed as bad as beholders, but practically they're not. Beholders are spawn created from space that are essentially Lovecraftian horrors. Drow are evil because of their culture; if I found a drow baby and raised it as my own with good values, it probably wouldn't become evil. Can't say the same as a beholder (also beholders can't even be "babies").
I'm pretty open to letting people play things though. I had someone play a succubus once, that was pretty wild.