Another "women" venting thread.

My roommate Neil met a girl at eHarmony.com. They talked a lot online and on the phone, and eventually tried to set up a date.

She calls the day before to say she had an allergic reaction to food and didn't want to go out because she didn't think she looked good all puffy-faced. Neil understood, and they rescheduled.

A week later, Neil's waiting for her at a restaurant, and she's a no-show. Half an hour later he departs, calls her, gets no answer, emails her to make sure he didn't get anything wrong, then . . . and here's the part that I adore him for . . . he says, "If I don't hear back from in a few days, I'll call you one more time. I understand if you got cold feet or didn't feel like dating, but if that's the case, I'd rather you tell me than me having to wonder if maybe something happened to you."

As it was, yeah, it turned out she got into a car accident on the way to the date.

When they finally did get to go on a date, they'd both kinda cooled to the situation, and though they're okay with hanging out, neither of them felt any chemistry. Ah well.



As for my personal 'women' problem, it's that my ex-girlfriend, who is part of my peer group so I can't avoid her, had been acting distant and a little mean for two months. Now, though, she's mellowed, and she's gone back to normal. And curse her for that! When she was being a naughty word, I didn't so much mind that she'd broken up with me, but now that she's friendly and cute again, I can't help but be interested again.

*sigh* Then again, I can't complain about having had the chance to date a cute girl, nor about the chance to hang out with her now.
 

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Eolin said:
I lost most of that weight in 3 months, and have lose skin all over. My tummy, my face ... even a stretch mark or two on my right side, just above the waist. I don't know how to get rid of the excess skin, except to do situps, which I hate.

I lost a lot of weight also but still have along way to go. If you still need to lose weight you might want to go the surgery route to remove the skin. I will most likely have to do that. Toning execises is your best cheap way of doing it but it will only get you so far.

Oh about the girl. As long as you have both your hands and pr0n or at least a great imagination you wont need a girl.:)
 

RangerWickett said:
As for my personal 'women' problem, it's that my ex-girlfriend, who is part of my peer group so I can't avoid her, had been acting distant and a little mean for two months. Now, though, she's mellowed, and she's gone back to normal. And curse her for that!

Yes ... yes ... give in to your anger. Let the hatred flow within you. Strike her down and your journey to the Dark Side will be complete!
 

Eolin said:
I've read most of it, TB. It was a train wreck. I'm not "that guy". Most of my similiarities to being "that guy" disapeared with 30 pounds of fat. I'm mostly venting. Like I said. Not really looking for advice. That's why I put the note in there, mostly so that you'd know I wasn't that guy.

Ahh, point taken then:)

Carry on.
 




DungeonmasterCal said:
But where's the fun in that?

Is there more fun in not having phone calls returned, and not having any idea what's going on? Dealing with other human beings can be a whole lot of fun, but it can also be really frustrating.

At times like this, I'm not 100% certain its worth it.

I suppose the lows are worth the stupendous highs of the human experience. I know mine basically works out. I seem to have the uncanny ability to attract and repel a woman in less than a week. Woot, I've found my super power!
 


Aeson said:
I lost a lot of weight also but still have along way to go. If you still need to lose weight you might want to go the surgery route to remove the skin. I will most likely have to do that. Toning execises is your best cheap way of doing it but it will only get you so far.

Oh about the girl. As long as you have both your hands and pr0n or at least a great imagination you wont need a girl.:)

I'm not doing surgery. I'm much to granola for anything like that. I'm exercising nearly every day -- but the toning is taking a whole lot longer than the weight loss. I'm hoping that next time I fast my body will take away the extra skin. I'm just going to have to try and find out.
 

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