I'd say that I'm above average. But then, a lot of people I've gamed with I'd classify as "social" gamers, whereby, they're in it just for the socialization, and getting out of the house aspect. My current group is all a great group of people, and I like gaming with them, but there isn't a lot of deep role-playing going on. Oh sure, I struggle, but I try to take on my character's role, and talk to the other players as my character. I often find myself cutting off "metagame" arguments for what we should do, and focus on what our characters know. When I DM, I encourage people to "say what you intend to say", not "tell me what you say". In other words, in my game, I don't like when people do the following: "I go up to the king and tell him that I think his policy towards the orphans is unfair and unjust." Instead, I will insist that the player do the following: "I go up to the king and say, 'I think your policy is unfair and unjust!'" Subtle difference, but it encourages better role-playing, and keeps people in character.