I am a woman and I have been playing since the old days and I have not been brain washed but put me down for keeping the nudity to a minimum.
I can agree with that. D&D monster books are not porno mags. That said, how about some nudity, when it's appropriate. And how about not shying away from showing any amount of nipple (male or female), or crotchal region (again, male or female, doesn't matter to me).
If there are 100 monsters in the book, 5 should feature some kind of nudity. 3 should be female, and 2 should be male.
I don't have an issue with say a succubus showing a little flesh or the after mentioned harpy. But to much just becomes gratuitous and makes me wonder if they are designing a game for adolescent males who get over excited over a naked boob.
Having been an adolescent male, that's definitely part of my experience of the game. D&D was part of coming of age for me; it's not Playboy, thank Pelor, but it's part of what it means to grow up.
But is it really the case that girls burst into flames when they see another girl's breasts?
Oh please naked boobs are still unacceptable to a lot of people look at the outrage some people have seeing a mom nurse her baby in public which is what the breast was designed for.
Those people need to join the rest of us in the 21st century. D&D books need to lead the charge. Shout it from the rooftops: Nudity is not evil!
Personally I and my female friend wish they would take nudity out of a lot of movies. I don't mind tasteful scenes or scenes where it makes sense for nudity but so much just feels like it was put in to titillate boys.
As a boy, I resent that. You shouldn't be advocating for the removal of stuff I like. You should be advocating the inclusion of stuff you like. Your problem might be a lack of plot or emotional development, so champion that stuff, please.
And the feminist in me always wonder why is it always the woman who has to be naked why not the man.
I don't have an answer, but I'm all for trying to include more male nudity. I consider myself a feminist too, and my solution is: get everybody naked and have a good time. That way we're all equal.