Perspective is sometimes hard to get when one keeps one's nose to the monitor. While I know there'd be detriments to doing so, I have oft wondered what would happen to the tone of the place if we just closed EN World for a week forcing everyone - posters, mods, everyone - to take a break and do something else.
Did we do that once before, albeit on accident? ;p
(What really got me hot was people telling me my perspectives were somehow invalid.).
This was the big, major factor for bringing out my rage and irritation. Being looked down on and told that there was something wrong with me if I didn't like 4e.
To an extent I do fault WotC for part of the change we are seeing. I believe that building up 4E by casting down 3E, was a clear part of their marketing strategy. That caused a lot of anger in the minds of those players who still enjoyed 3E, and led to much of the division we are seeing today. We are ultimately responsible for our own actions, but the initial rules were set by WotC.
This was the other bit. It seemed every single preview had very little emphasis on "4e is great" and for more emphasis on "Man, remember how much this and that in 3.5 sucked? Oooooof course you do." I was initially really, really upset with the DMG which seemed to tell me how boring I was time and time again, until it finally clicked for me - this book wasn't made for me. I already know how to DM. This book is for the people who are just getting into the hobby.
Once that clicked with me - and once I had a somewhat sobering visit to my hometown - I think a lot of my frustrations regarding 4e melted away. Maybe I was justified in it, maybe not, but my rage for 4e was because I felt the edition was supposed to be something I liked and wanted, and it wasn't. I felt kinda cheated. But eh, horribly enough, apathy can cure many problems. I've got bigger fish to fry soon enough - maybe I can blame the rage on lazy summer days? ;p. I suppose the right way to say it is "I no longer care, and I've never felt better because of it."