abirdcall
(she/her)
Lots of ways you can play the game. If your group is having fun you're doing it right. If someone else is having fun playing differently, they are doing it right too.
But we shouldn't discuss anything?
Buffing spellcasting by not having them be noticed by other characters causes all sorts of problems.
I made the thread in response to a variety of posts I have seen lately either stating that certain spells are overpowered or are must haves. It turns out in these cases the problem was ignoring the components of the spell.
For example, complaining that Guidance was broken because it made Clerics better at skills than Rogues or Bards. They were using it for Stealth and allowing the cast to ignore the verbal and somatic components.
So they were having a bad time but blaming the spell Guidance rather than their mishandling of spellcasting.