"Unpleasant...well a wedding is a happy occasion, so I shan't force you to dwell on anything unpleasant when we should all be thinking of happier things."
"Hmm, well I'll bet you definitely could surprise him. And don't worry--if you show me, I won't tell him your secret. I couldn't, anyway. They say it's bad luck for the bride and groom to see each other the day before all the way up to the ceremony itself, so I haven't seen him all day. You tell him hi from me when you see him, though, okay? I'd have you send him hugs and kisses from me, too, but I'll have the one special kiss for him tomorrow after our vows."