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In both 3E, 3.5 and Pathfinder, the definition of surprise is that you know they are there and they don't know you are there. You obviously don't know about a trap until it is spotted, but (as stated in the OP), can a trap know you are there?
Whether you are in combat readiness or not is not a factor in surprise. I guess the assumption is that you always are. DnD is after all written with dungeon exploring as the default setting - hardly a place to slack.
Whether you are in combat readiness or not is not a factor in surprise. I guess the assumption is that you always are. DnD is after all written with dungeon exploring as the default setting - hardly a place to slack.