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Your poll lacks a choice for players playing the game because they LIKE combat.
Your issue is a non-issue for these players: "why would I want to AVOID combat, isn't fighting 90% of why we play this game?"
See my post above - liking combat or wanting to choose it often isn't an option 'cuz that's not really what I'm interested in. I'm interested about when the DM is going to MAKE you fight vs. when you can get out of it, if you want. If you don't want, but still have the option, then you still have the option. If you don't want, but don't have the option, then you still don't have the option. The option (and the expectation of the option) is what I'm curious about.