Alright alright!!
Okay, its in the FAQ so that's where everyone is getting the -20 rule for everything.
But now the question is, was this the original intention of the rules, or was this a new thing? It wouldn't be the first time the FAQ completely changed an aspect of the rules and didn't mention it was errata.
If the -20 rule wasn't intended originally for normal grapple (and by the reading of the ph it isn't there, that's been established), then my question still stands. So basically, do you only need one hand to grapple, do you only need one hand to pin? If your pinned, do you drop your weapon? (it says in the book you can't attack with light weapons while pinning, but doesn't say they are disarmed).
Fortuantely grappling is being rewritten in 3.5, so maybe all of this questioning will be mute in july.

But now the question is, was this the original intention of the rules, or was this a new thing? It wouldn't be the first time the FAQ completely changed an aspect of the rules and didn't mention it was errata.
If the -20 rule wasn't intended originally for normal grapple (and by the reading of the ph it isn't there, that's been established), then my question still stands. So basically, do you only need one hand to grapple, do you only need one hand to pin? If your pinned, do you drop your weapon? (it says in the book you can't attack with light weapons while pinning, but doesn't say they are disarmed).
Fortuantely grappling is being rewritten in 3.5, so maybe all of this questioning will be mute in july.