Dr Midnight said:
I mean, I don't mind the word at all, but would it have hurt the story at all for the word to be swapped out with any vaguer term?
I would say yes because it would not be authentic to the character. One of Martin's strengths is that he designs _and_ implements a believable system where the world and the characters therein are true to the system. I think that is what people mean by 'realism,' not reality measured against the Authors real world, but internal integrity measured against the Author's creative world.
It would be jarring to read about a character in a complete world who was dark, gritty, and mean who expressed his anger by saying "Dangit!"
Could you imagine watching the _Bradey Bunch_ (the tv show, not the spoofing movie) and hearing Carol Bradey say "Mike, I want to ride you like a stallion, come and do vile naughty things to my most intimate parts!" Even without the 'f-word' this would still jar someone who was aware of the normal way that character operates.
Alternatively, ever seen the ‘edited for TV’ versions of movies like _Casino_ or _Goodfellas_? It is simply laughable to hear these tough mobsters simply ludicrous.
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What does this mean for _Dragon_? Did they err in including this because it crossed a line? Well, I would say no. The context is perfect. Fantasy fiction helping players and game masters show how internally consistent (i.e. ‘real’) characters work in a fantasy setting is eminently useful to some (if not all) the readers and players of D&D. Should they include more material that is again, ‘realistic’ (as I use it above, not as in a reference to the ‘Real World’ as depicted by MTV) although it is not appropriate for every reader? Yes, because it helps _some_ players improve their role-playing, gather ideas for villains or heroes, or otherwise entertain, enlighten, challenge, or amuse.
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As for Carlin’s “Seven Dirty Words” I believe his point was that the fact that 7 of the 400,000 words in the English language are considered ‘dirty’ is ridiculous and that you should worry about the ideas being conveyed; not the sounds being uttered. I think this is good advice for _Dragon_ as well!!!