FrogReaver
The most respectful and polite poster ever
Well, that's your problem, right there.
If you want a thing, and others don't, you can't just say, "Well I reject your premise, now give me what I want," and expect to succeed. It is a negotiation non-starter.
That premise cannot be openly debated here. About the best that can be done is say I personally reject it, pretty much anything more approaches and quickly crosses what this site considers to be anti inclusive. That’s fine, but can you really expect more in light of that?
Come to the table actually open to some give-and-take, and you might get somewhere. Otherwise, the major source of your disappointments is... your own position.
I think that’s some absolutely terrible advice.
I think being willing to listen is fine, but give and take? Not a given.