KarinsDad said:
When it comes to alignment, it is a rainbow of shades of gray. There is more opinion (i.e. belief) on what a given alignment means than actual RAW. RAW gives a general guideline, but the specifics are up to the people playing the game.
Even if that is true, it is then up to what
they believe - and what the DM believes. What I do or do not believe does not enter into it in the least. Thus, it is absurd and nontopical for you to ask what I believe.
1) It was not a follow up post, it was the original post. There is no mention of a rope or branch by the OP in a follow up post.
There is, however, mention of taking time to think in the follow up post.
2) It was not a rope, it was a whip.
It was effectively being used as a rope. I concede the literal detail, but my point was not that a rope was being used, my point was that the character already had something in hand to grab onto.
3) The OP did not state that she was firmly holding on. She is in quicksand, a better interpretation of what the OP wrote is that she is struggling to get out ("During my struggle") than that she is "holding on firmly".
You appear to be arguing that she was
not holding on firmly. This would be in direct contravention of the statement that she was engaged in freeing herself from the quicksand. You'll have to abandon one statement or the other to be logically consistent.
4) This is a game. Players stop and think about things all of the time whereas their PCs make a quick action: especially in rounds (which this was since the DM was counting down by rounds).
It was not stated that the thought was not IC. You assumed it was OOC; I assumed it was IC. Are you angry with me for not starting out with the same initial assumption?
I'm not discussing whether she turns evil. I am discussing whether she did an evil act.
You indicated that it was unfair to question if the Dwarf does an evil act by grabbing her legs in order to survive. So, if someone is drowning, grabbing someone above you and possibly pulling them deeper in is not evil. But, if you are only threatened with drowning, stepping on what you think is a dead guy is evil???
I clearly indicated in my previous post that thinking about an action and making a decision before execution vs. doing something suddenly in an altered mental state of blind panic can change whether an action is evil or neutral. If you don't understand that, then I don't think I can help you no matter how much explaining I do.
Overall, here's where you and I seem to disagree, KD: in the strict morality system DnD uses, an evil act is always evil, no matter the circumstances. ("I only opened the portal to the Abyss because otherwise the demons would have slain my wife!" "That's still evil.") This really does not sit well with most people, who view it (rightly or wrongly) as absurd. That's fine, and you can play your game however you want.
I'm just answering the question, "Was the act evil [according to this artificial system of morality that has no relationship to RL]?"
My answer was and is: Yes, it was, but who cares? The character is neutral and can perform evil or good acts freely in order to survive. It makes no practical difference if the action was evil or neutral.