ExploderWizard
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No somebody else is always driving the wagon... you are just along for the ride you quit making your choices (hah) at least that is the negative connotation of "band wagon". Its kind of the lemming heard insult in a different form.
Edit - maybe thats wrong and its just the All or Nothing fallacy.
In any event I think people just decided it wasnt meant insultingly... whatever term was used.
Even if you are just along for the ride, if you become a disgruntled passenger then you can just hop off and climb aboard a different wagon, or not as you choose.