Thomas Shey
Legend
I think in most conventional RPGs there's a moderate to strong tendency for people to not appreciate characters they have the sense will not hold up their function in the character group. This is, after all, a hobby where your character is unlikely to be a self-contained entity who can get by no matter what the rest are doing; even outside of class-and-level systems, there are usually some practical limits to have effective a generalist you can be. This has two effects: you're somewhat dependent on other people doing their jobs, and (usually) you're expected to assist and aid others. So a character that is incompetent is both not bringing their part to the group, and simultaneously requiring extra effort from you to keep them intact.
Where it gets sticky is that some people have a very high set of expectations for what translates into not-incompetent. So any deviation from that is viewed with contempt and/or hostility. But I think that's just a pathological expression of a very common set of expectations.
Where it gets sticky is that some people have a very high set of expectations for what translates into not-incompetent. So any deviation from that is viewed with contempt and/or hostility. But I think that's just a pathological expression of a very common set of expectations.