Analogies do not neuter discussion, they're meant to help people understand another point of view. And actually what you're describing is a false dichotomy, which artificially sets up an either or position. From the wiki:No it is not an apt analogy, because again you ignore how the Coke analogy neuters any criticism or desire for changes in the game. Your analogy's solution is "STFU and drink another Cola" or play another system, as you are flagrantly suggesting here.
And the false dilemma is being set up by the original premise of the thread. Which is "I don't like it so it's got to go away and be taken away from others because I can't stand it or it has to change to suit my personal tastes". Which is a pretty offensive thing to say and a disrespectful attitude to take.A false dilemma (also called false dichotomy, the either-or fallacy, fallacy of false choice, black and white thinking or the fallacy of exhaustive hypotheses) is a type of logical fallacy that involves a situation in which only two alternatives are considered, when in fact there are additional options.
I was simply trying to offer an additional option, and trying to help you understand why that attitude is inflammatory and not necessary.
Many people like the system as is. Why shouldn't they be allowed to play the game they like?
And that's the entire crux of the problem, is some people feel that these people who like the system as is shouldn't be allowed to play it because others don't like it.
Common courtesy, and respect works both ways. That means a person shouldn't be bothered if another person likes to play a different game and shouldn't impose like that.
And no, I am not trying to argue the other way around either.
How was Danny's comment either reasonable or polite? It amounted to, "It would make everyone happy if you played something else and left D&D alone," which is both unreasonable and rude.
Actually it isn't. It's pretty rude to tell people that they have to stop doing something they like because you don't like it.
Think of it like this. How do you feel if you're doing something you enjoy and somebody comes up and tells you your can't read your favorite book because they don't enjoy it and think nobody else should read it but it's your favorite book.
Are you going to stop reading and rereading your favorite book because they don't like it?
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