They're only red because you don't accept the first premise.
Premise 1--\
Premise 2---> Conclusion
Premise 3--/
There's no point in debating the conclusion of your argument, or that there needs be a comprimise, if one of your premises is in question.
"Firstly, the use of violence against another is evil."
You used this earlier as your premise. And while it was incorrect that I was playing word games by substituting violence and force, shall we not return to the original argument? After all, violence is only force + speed, and we shouldn't allow speed to take the fall for force in what's Evil and what isn't.
So:
The use of force against another is Evil.
Categorically?
What actions are Good that the addition of force makes them Evil?
Is there a difference between action and force?
Is there a moral difference between physical force and emotional force?
Do it and I'll hit you.
vs.
Do it and I'm leaving.
Is there a difference between intensional and unintentional force?
I close the door in your face and you break your nose.
vs.
I close the door. Two hours later you trip and break your nose on the door.
Is eschewing force against another Good? Categorically?
Is there any action, psychological, physical, emotional, that influences another in a way you want that is not Evil?