Humanophile
First Post
Xath said:I had written something here that was *honest*, but I thought better of it. I understand that guys are often attracted to younger women. And I understand that relationships with large age gaps can work. But I have to say that I find this statement kind of creepy. You wouldn't consider seeing someone your own age unless she looked younger? Would you date an 18 year old that looked younger than 18?
Your age specifications seem very superficial. And hippocritical, since you don't really seem to care about your own appearance.
You know our good friend Hida. He prefers blunt honesty. So don't feel the need to hold back on his part. Eric's grandmother, on the other hand...
Still, it's more fun when people learn what the market will bear on their own. They tend not to learn any other way, really. (Many fail to learn even then, but if harsh experience fails to teach them anything I don't see friendly advice making a lick of difference.) I'm hoping against hope that if/as Hida learns how to socialize, he'll learn to be more adaptable and open-minded. I've seen people grow as they come face to face with reality, and I'd like to retain some optimism.