Gradine
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To make things even worse for me I find is the fact that combat and non combat feats are drawn from the same limited pool which often finds the choice of combat viability vs colour/concept forced upon a player.
I really don't understand this issue. I get that combat still has outsized significance over the other two pillars, but I can't really think of a single character choice that exists entirely within the combat pillar. Does it also upset people that they have to choose between combat and non-combat spells? Some skills have some combat applications too. Certainly your choice of race, class and archetype gives you access to differing amounts of combat and non-combat abilities.
Non-combat abilities are not just color or concept; they're designed to help resolve the encounters and challenges that don't revolve around smashing faces in. At least philosophically, in 5e that's two-thirds of the game.