Li Shenron
Legend
I like having to choose in 5e for two reasons. First because I am not a huge fan of games where PCs have all high stats, and thus I like that those who choose ASI have to give up feats. Second because I like how these particular choice points work as a "dial" on PC complexity.
If the rest of your group feels the same as you, the easy solution is just to grant both ASI and a feat each time.
For a more balanced solution (to avoid those levels being too much of a power bump), you could just take either the ASI or the feat, and grant it separately based on total character level.
If the rest of your group feels the same as you, the easy solution is just to grant both ASI and a feat each time.
For a more balanced solution (to avoid those levels being too much of a power bump), you could just take either the ASI or the feat, and grant it separately based on total character level.