i dunno 300+ posts seems like a mountain.
Are we really just arguing about action adjudication? or are we arguing about the jumping rules? Every time i think we’ve settled on the former a person on the other side says no, you can’t jump beyond the limit prescribed in the book without some approach other than sheer effort. Basically that the rules say there’s a hard limit on pure jumping: guaranteed success followed immediately by guaranteed failure.
Which is it for you?
I think it's a mountain created around a molehill and that most people just make a ruling on and move on.
I didn't realize stating how you declare what your character is doing was an issue to anyone. As a DM I have a preference that people interact with the world from the perspective of the PC but if they sometimes skip to asking for a skill check I just go with it to keep the game going. I might comment back to clarify what they are doing.
End of the day? Make a decision for your game. Jumping an unusually long distance just means there's a chance of failure? Jumping an unusually long distance requires "something" extra?
The former is the way I run it because I'm more into narrative gameplay and dramatic jumps with chances of falling to the alley below are quite common trope. I don't care if that makes it a house rule in some people's opinions. I don't think it is but to each their own. If a DM ruled the latter I'd disagree and move on.
It's a molehill.