DemoMonkey
Hero
"Seems too disingenuous for my tastes."
And that's fine. I try to offer solutions that can be added to the toolbox; whether it works for your group is up to you to decide.
As far as I'm concerned (as DM of a home game with friends), being a neutral arbiter is not my primary job as a DM. Being an entertainer is. I look upon being it more like being a magician than a referee. The players know the whole thing is a trick but willingly suspend their disbelief, because they want to have a good time.
And they do.
So I suppose our "social contract" is "I may or may not fudge things behind the screen and make things up on the spot, and you will pretend that isn't even a possibility, because that way we will ALL have more fun."
And given that - and I am 100% certain we are not unique - my suggestion may be totally wrong for your group, but makes perfect sense and would be useful to others who play the same way as us.
And that's fine. I try to offer solutions that can be added to the toolbox; whether it works for your group is up to you to decide.
As far as I'm concerned (as DM of a home game with friends), being a neutral arbiter is not my primary job as a DM. Being an entertainer is. I look upon being it more like being a magician than a referee. The players know the whole thing is a trick but willingly suspend their disbelief, because they want to have a good time.
And they do.
So I suppose our "social contract" is "I may or may not fudge things behind the screen and make things up on the spot, and you will pretend that isn't even a possibility, because that way we will ALL have more fun."
And given that - and I am 100% certain we are not unique - my suggestion may be totally wrong for your group, but makes perfect sense and would be useful to others who play the same way as us.