Ok, so now might be a good time for me to sort of define what Haldamir's attitude towards everyone is. Of course he's a jerk, but for my own benefit I kind of want to sketch this out a bit. Most of this has already been developed IC, this is sort of a summary of what's happened(except for Jeremy).
Diedre: He respects and admires the paladin's focus/discipline.
Kordrim: He wants to be friends and continue discussing the whole mixed blood issue, but his lack of tact probably means that more stupid comments will be forthcoming.
Jeremy: Basically neutral. Because of the monastery's ambivalent view on suffering, it also means he has an ambivalent view about Pelor. Monks tend to think dualistically, which means Pelor's healing has no meaning without pain and suffering, which paradoxically makes Pelor the god of suffering just as much as he is the god of healing.
Hoegor: He thinks Hoegor is an undisciplined savage, but of course we know that this isn't really the case. He'll learn that in time. I'll try not to bog the thread down in too much verbal sparring though, as it could just be annoying after a while.
Jillian: He doesn't want to provoke a halfling rogue, as doing so would make him subject to her whims. So he'll just avoid her as much as possible.
Of course, it's none of my business to tell anyone how they should act
towards Haldamir. If I'm willing to dish out the verbal abuse, I should be willing to take it as well.
Also, feel free at any time to steer me in the right direction in this thread if I ever go to far with anything he does, or if I'm slowing down the progress too much. Like I've mentioned before, I'm sort of new to this and I won't necessarily know if I'm going too far without help from you guys.