FrogReaver
The most respectful and polite poster ever
I’ll add this. I’m personally more interested in the playing a game with friends than any particular game. I was offering to run BitD but one of the players was only really interested in 5e d&d. He offered to sit out but we decided to stick with 5e so everyone could keep playing. But there was no expectation of that and if we had decided to play the other he would have sit out till we went back to 5e and there would have been no hard feelings. That’s the expectations I have and find reasonable. Anything more than that reads more to me as coercive pressure on your friends to get your way.I am literally giving you examples where I have made a personal choice to not impact the group, and to remove myself.
I'm not excluding anyone, and nobody is 'unsafe' lol.
My feelings are taking into consideration when given 'fair warning' that content I dont want to engage with, is included.
Its still my personal responsibility to make the choice for me, instead of for the rest of the group.