Thank you.
As I indicated subsequently, I thought I was acting on your character's urgency. By "we" I meant "we" and by "strike" I was thinking "at range" (at least the 30' for Tommi's Magic Stone) but I didn't make that explicit.
Yeah, misundestanding.
To my eyes, saying it wasn't personal and subsequently talking about making enemies with Tommi felt excessive, and undermined the ooc in the first post.
What!? I never said anything about making enemies? I said Vairar will react - that means he may berate (in-game) or curse or whatever reckless human. Not that he will attack him or refuse to heal him or whatever.
I myself do not see the stark player/character distinction you do. We are all people with lives, and I ensure my character (all my characters) want some basic things that I do -- particularly the group to work together, all players to have fun, and the game to keep going. I hate any PvP conflict.
This is the main issue then. I want everyone to have fun. But having character have real-life (for him in game) trouble doesn't detract from my fun. If we are all in agreement all the time, we might just as well be hive mind or one entity with many powers. With conflicts like this I see opportunity for RP and character development, not inter-player strife. Vairar and Tommi want the same thing - resolve the orcs and gnolls and help their respective people. It is just a way of accomplishing that they disagree on.
Since we differ in the understanding of what conflict in-game and out-of-game is, I'll reign in Vairars comments since it detracts from your fun. I very much see character-player distinction because I am capable (and did) play both female (I am male) and evil (I am not) people. Outgoing peace-makers and/or healers and violent fighters as well as withdrawn bookish characters.
I am fairly outgoing, but not the center of the events. I know how to fight, but I am not violent. I enjoy books, d&d and science, but I'm not bookish in a sense that I know minutiae of everything.
And I'm sure you could say the same for yourself. I'm fairly sure not all your characters are like Tommi.
You can't know that's what motivates my ic posts, and I do assume others want the same. Let's play. And thanks.
True. And agreed. I don't want you to not have fun. Sorry for any misunderstanding.
Sorry for the discussion everyone, I hope we can keep going together like friends.