MichaelSomething
Legend
How much healing does the average 5E party need anyway? If long rest Arn't being heavily restricted and/or adventuring days Arn't 7ish encounters long, do you really need a healing Cleric?
What I want is cooperation. That is how I think the game should be played. They are the same thing. I am being cooperative by insisting upon cooperation. How can I make this clearer to you?You keep defining cooperation as "playing the game the way you want it played." How are you being cooperative?
I fully agree that cooperation is important. But I fully disagree with the notion that cooperation = casting healing spells.What I want is cooperation. That is how I think the game should be played. They are the same thing. I am being cooperative by insisting upon cooperation. How can I make this clearer to you?
At the beginning of the thread, we had one guy saying, "I shouldn't have to heal just because I rolled a cleric." I didn't even disagree, I just said it didn't impress me as a choice. I honestly didn't even think he was serious about never healing. But every post in favor since has doubled down. So yeah, I kind of feel like there's a point here that has to be made.
It's a cooperative game. Cooperate. The sanctity of character concept is the least important thing at the table.
I'm not going to apologize for expecting that players consider other players during play. I can't even believe I have to say that.
I don't think you or anyone else gets to redefine the term that selectively. If it is possible for circumstances to arise where cooperation requires healing, and you refuse to heal in all circumstances, it follows that there are circumstances in which you will not be cooperative.I fully agree that cooperation is important. But I fully disagree with the notion that cooperation = casting healing spells.
Right. That’s the disagreement. I don’t think that circumstances ever arise where cooperation requires healing. There are lots of ways to cooperate.I don't think you or anyone else gets to redefine the term that selectively. If it is possible for circumstances to arise where cooperation requires healing, and you refuse to heal in all circumstances, it follows that there are circumstances in which you will not be cooperative.
You're entitled to that belief, if it suits you, but I don't think anyone can categorically state with authority that there is always a better (more cooperative) substitute for healing in every circumstance arising in D&D5. There is some degree of requirement by the other players at the table at which my position is sound, and if it is sound at any degree of requirement, it is sound.Right. That’s the disagreement. I don’t think that circumstances ever arise where cooperation requires healing. There are lots of ways to cooperate.
Well, we have a fundamental disagreement that won’t be resolved here. I’m curious though if your reasoning stops with healing spells. What other spell selections should a cleric make in order to play the game with an acceptable level of cooperation?Refusing to use a class ability out of preference when that class ability would be useful to the group is uncooperative.
In a weird, exhausted way I am deeply grateful to you for acknowledging this.Well, we have a fundamental disagreement that won’t be resolved here.
Dammit, not this again. We were so close.I’m curious though if your reasoning stops with healing spells. What other spell selections should a cleric make in order to play the game with an acceptable level of cooperation?
It is absolutely up to the player. I've never in my life told a player what spells to memorize unless they've asked for guidance, as either a dungeon master or as a fellow player. If I saw my players doing this, I would criticize them for it. Have done, come to think of it.If I refuse to cast animate dead when it would be advantageous to the party, am I uncooperative? Who decides what is the best (most cooperative) complement of spells?
I’d rather leave that judgement to the player.
Equally... telling a player during session zero "You are not allowed to have a cleric who doesn't cast healing spells" is uncooperative.You're entitled to that belief, if it suits you, but I don't think anyone can categorically state with authority that there is always a better (more cooperative) substitute for healing in every circumstance arising in D&D5. There is some degree of requirement by the other players at the table at which my position is sound, and if it is sound at any degree of requirement, it is sound.
Refusing to use a class ability out of preference when that class ability would be useful to the group is uncooperative.
Absolutely no one has proposed doing this.Equally... telling a player during session zero "You are not allowed to have a cleric who doesn't cast healing spells" is uncooperative.
Since a few posts ago you agreed that certain cleric character concepts are acceptable to be played without the expectation of casting healing spells then I'm not sure there is any disagreement on this thread.Absolutely no one has proposed doing this.
And you remain incorrect.Since a few posts ago you agreed that certain cleric character concepts are acceptable to be played without the expectation of casting healing spells then I'm not sure there is any disagreement on this thread.
That's exactly what myself as well as several other posters have been trying to point out when we say that not healing isn't necessarily uncooperative if that is how you envisioned your character acting narratively.
Let people play their characters the way they want. It's one thing to have an objection to player who isn't taking the game seriously, or who is being disruptive or whatever. But otherwise, it's their character, their choice.
Is it always the player's choice though. If someone is playing a PC that acts against the rest of the party, is the party in their right to ask that PC to leave and replace them with another PC? Would I be a jerk player if I wanted to play my character to not like others stealing from the party and your Pc was stealing from the party. When both out characters, our choices come into conflict, what happens?I would define cooperative as "allowing people to play their own characters their own way." If I am so desperate that we have healer, it is on me to play it, not make someone else serve my needs.
Is it always the player's choice though. If someone is playing a PC that acts against the rest of the party, is the party in their right to ask that PC to leave and replace them with another PC? Would I be a jerk player if I wanted to play my character to not like others stealing from the party and your Pc was stealing from the party. When both out characters, our choices come into conflict, what happens?
There seems to be two angles here, where a player can come to the game with any PC they want and other players want to have a group that works together. If we sat down to play and you someone said, "I'm going to play the cleric, you play the rogue." Why would I be the jerk when I find out they are not playing that part of the team? There should be ways to play your character the way one wants and still be part of the team in the role you chose. Others said that means casting a few healing words when needed and maybe a raise dead. That likely works fine in 5e. Actively going against that part of being a team maybe makes that player a jerk instead of me.
I agree with this.Refusing to use a class ability out of preference when that class ability would be useful to the group is uncooperative. It's a question of principle. If a player approaches D&D from the perspective that their character concept is more important than the enjoyment of the group, they've missed the point of the entire game.
But what if the enjoyment of the group is predicated on each player playing their chosen concept to the hilt? My groups would rather have a TPK and start over than have a player play their character in a manner the player didn't think fit their concept.Refusing to use a class ability out of preference when that class ability would be useful to the group is uncooperative. It's a question of principle. If a player approaches D&D from the perspective that their character concept is more important than the enjoyment of the group, they've missed the point of the entire game.
I do not think it is an all or nothing problem and go find another group suddenly. If we played 10 campaigns and everything was fine and we all had fun then I feel it is a different issue. If you want to play a PC that does not want to play in the group, the other PCs should get a say on whether they want to continue on the adventure with your character. As players we want to let anyone play what they want, but as PCs there should be some reason to play together. Some of this likely falls into the "It is what my character would do." problem in the game.You're justifying your decision to tell someone else how to play their character by saying that they're a "jerk" if they don't play the way you would play that character. But one thing does not follow the other. If "the group" tells me that my cleric must cast animate dead because it's best for the group, my answer is going to be "no" with any cleric I've run and I'll likely start looking for a new group because obviously we have different goals and standards. Fortunately that's never happened.
Different groups operate differently. Some sit down and figure out optimal configurations, others are "play what you want". I'm firmly on the "play what you want side of the spectrum. It's fine if you're on the other end, but you don't get to call me, or anyone, a jerk simply because we have a different approach. When I play or when I DM I want each individual to have fun, part of that is playing a PC they enjoy.
If you feel so strongly that the group needs a dedicated healer, play one yourself. If you choose not to play a dedicated healer when you personally feel that the group needs one, perhaps you need to reconsider who the jerk is. Is it the person that decided to play what they want or the one who's trying to dictate other people's choices and decisions?
No, it is not. If you prioritize story (which my groups do), you cooperate by playing your character as they would behave as a real person. If someone has the vision of, say a devotee of the gods who has devoted themselves entirely to a mission that requires them to become a warlike instrument of wrath (war cleric), they might see that as eschewing healing altogether.And you remain incorrect.
Refusing to use a class ability out of preference when that class ability would be useful to the group is uncooperative.
I do not think it is an all or nothing problem and go find another group suddenly. If we played 10 campaigns and everything was fine and we all had fun then I feel it is a different issue. If you want to play a PC that does not want to play in the group, the other PCs should get a say on whether they want to continue on the adventure with your character. As players we want to let anyone play what they want, but as PCs there should be some reason to play together. Some of this likely falls into the "It is what my character would do." problem in the game.
Kind of like if I have a new PC that makes fun of the other PCs and tells 'your mama' jokes about them. Might be ok for a couple levels, but if there is no growth and change it gets boring and when the rogue say he wants to backstab him because "I told him one more time." Now all the players are upset.
If in one game I play the caring cleric that cares for everyone and is motherly and cast heals, then in the next game I play a cleric that just kills and does not cast any healing- I am just playing my PC they way I want. The rest of the players may be a bit thrown back by the change.
This may also tie into other threads like the ones about the DM being allowed to make the campaign restrictive in terms of races and classes, or the threads about session 0 and playing evil alignments and PvP conflict.
The whole comment is good advice and I think most people are fair about it. I remember this part above specifically from a convention I played in 30+ years ago when I was a middle-schooler. The table had one older person than us and he kept saying the tactical thing all of our PCs would do instead of asking us to do it or letting us play the way we wanted. He would tell the DM that the thief will sneak around back and the mage will cast such and such. Not sure if he was trying to make the convention game fit in the allotted time or if he felt the 'kids' could not play, but it always stuck with me. I remember telling the DM that my PC was not doing what he said and that I was going to do something else. The DM seemed to catch on and then asked everyone what they were doing and things went fine from what I remember.There's a massive difference between the social contract of the group and character specific choices. We should discuss the social contract details of the group, and I have no problem saying you shouldn't play a disruptive or antagonistic player. That's significantly different from telling a character what spells they should cast or specifically what actions they should take in combat.