It sounds to me like the DM and the players have different ideas about how this world works. (Is your DM a big fan of Dragon Age, by chance? I'm wondering if that's where the "elves get no respect" idea is coming from.) Anyway, it sounds like you need to have a calm chat with the DM about the world where this game is set. Tell him (her?) that when you made this character, you expected that certain things would be true, based on what's in the book. If the DM doesn't agree that those things will apply in this game, then say you'd like to change your character's background to something you like better.
Remember the DM does have the right to make the world however he/she wants. BUT, it's also the DM's responsibility to tell the players ahead of time how the campaign world is going to work, so that they can make characters they will enjoy playing.
That sounds really bizarre. Almost like your DM doesn't know anything about your character. It also sounds like he's railroading you pretty hard. Have you tried talking to your DM about your concerns outside of the game session?
Absolutely yes.I know but if you want to change something this big should not give another thing to your player with equal value ?
I think that would make a lot of sense, as long as you find a feature you can both agree on. The Entertainer one might be a good compromise (free room and board if you perform is a nice benefit if you're going to be traveling).He could told me "The Noble Feat is not available in this game because other races hates Elves or are being jealous of them. I will let you choose another background's feature if your like "
I would allow a rebuild or a new character..
As I said I would allow a rebuild which means they keep everything about the character's story, however they change whatever mechanical aspects they want to. That said, if you change your background that means you change the background feature. You still might be second in charge, but you won't gain the mechanical benefits of being a noble. You can't have it both ways.But there was a roll over social rank, D100 roll, I got 95 and I become the second heir to the throne.
I can have it again, would u not allow your player to stick with his class or every other things but to change his background ?
As I said above, the DM has the right to decide how the different races interact in his/her world. But he really, really, really should have told you ahead of time that other races in his world have no respect for Elves. That's the kind of thing that a person who wants to play an Elf needs to know about the game.I am asking for your opinion, because as I said its my 1st time playing this, I have my own interpretations.
I would like to know how it really applies? Is it race restricted ? Cuz I am thinking, well obviously Elves will respect me .... It does not even need to be mentioned in the book.
... It sounds like your DM either is not very subtle or was overly afraid that a character of high social rank would try to boss the rest of the PCs around.