innerdude
Legend
Please, no one respond to Umbran's response. Seems he has personal issues to address, and quite frankly, I don't appreciate the tone, or the hostility, of his reply. It seems not only overly harsh, but also uncalled for especially from a MOD! I am willing to let it drop here for the sake of the discussion with more pleasant people, including those who can express their differences much more nicely than this. I appreciate everyone's conduct up until this point, and hope we may continue like intelligent people should. Thank you.
Couple things here:
First, I don't know anything about Umbran in real life--but if you post around here for a while (I notice you've only got 30-some-odd posts so far, Jacob), you'll come to understand that's just Umbran's general online "persona" on these boards. Some of it comes from his being a moderator, and wanting to maintain a sense of non-partisanship, and some of it is just his natural communication style. He's pretty straightforward, to the point of being blunt at times. More to the point, though, he's also very much about playing "devil's advocate" in a lot of ways, trying to get posters to think through statements or assumptions that aren't necessarily "prima facie" true, though the poster is generally convinced that their statement is "ironclad." I'll admit, on occasion it's grated me the wrong way, but when you start to see the pattern as a whole, there's a definite method to his comments. (And yes, it does feel a bit strange to stick up for Umbran, since he's more than capable of handling his own "stuff," but nonetheless . . .)

Second, I don't know anything about you in real life either, Jacob, but I have to say, I didn't find anything particularly inflammatory in Umbran's comments. He very clearly pointed out several areas where there were "holes" in your statements that didn't necessarily match up to the facts, and noted that if you were willing to do some additional exploration, you might find ways to expand your gaming horizons.
I know sometimes we use message boards for validation, to express a view and have other people say, "Yeah! ME TOO! I know exactly what you're saying!" If this is the kind of discussion you're really wanting, then I can see why getting an oppositional response might irk a bit. And yes, Umbran didn't stand up and start waving pom-poms and shouting "GO TEAM!" to your comments, but if you want to have a discussion, with back-and-forth and giving yourself an opportunity to really THINK about your assertions, then I think your response was unwarranted, and even a bit petulant.
Right now it just sounds like a "The bad man said mean things to me! Ignore the bad man!" If you'd go back and take a look at what was said, I think there's some pretty salient advice in Umbran's post.
You're wholly justified in feeling the way you feel about your own personal gaming experiences, they're yours alone and no one else's. But it's a bit unrealistic to expect that people aren't going to offer opposing, alternative viewpoints to your experience. And being dismissive to those opposing viewpoints isn't a great catalyst to holding productive discussion. Anyway, just a thought, because I think you've brought up an interesting point about the struggle between RPGs as a business, and RPGs as an entertainment medium, and I think the conversation can continue to be productive.