caudor said:
Call me old, but I don't understand why many of the disturbed (or crazy) people that I read about in the news are into wearing trenchcoats. It worries me because my son likes to wear a trench coat as a 'fashion statement'. I occasionally have to make him take it off it in hot weather.
Do the coats represent some kind of click or status symbol now days? Or, is it just the style chosen by today's youths, or those who want to be viewed as rebels?
I'm honestly unsure. After Columbine, it was claimed to be inspired by the Matrix, but at the same time, I'm not sure if that was just looking for something to blame.
I would suspect that for a lot of kids, it's a fashion statement...nothing more than a desired "look". I'm just guessing, but a disturbed person looking to go on a rampage, might perhaps find a trenchcoat useful to hide a gun in, carry ammo, etc. Maybe that's why these murderers chose to use them.
The most important thing a parent can do is talk to their children. Be interested in some of the things they are, so that you can keep the lines of communication open, and get a sense if they're being unduly influenced by an outside source, or having trouble with adjusting to something. Many parents are apparently out of touch with their kids....in my area, there are property crime problems, and they're caused almost entirely by local teenagers...generally aged 13-17, yet none of the local parents believe their kids are involved....even when there's physical proof.
My personal theory is not that psychos wear trenchcoats and play violent video games, but that the mainstream media is trying to create an issue. I think that we're so horrified by some of the things that happen, that we look for something, anything, to latch onto that could try to explain why someone would do something so horrible....and sometimes this means noticing an external sign or characteristic, because it's easy to codify....all the while missing darker signals that people might notice if they talked to each other more.
Of course, I could be completely wrong about all of this...I'm just making a guess.
Banshee