DungeonmasterCal
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DaveStebbins said:Wow, talk about living parallel lives. I'm a year older than you and ended my 15-year marriage over two years ago for similar reasons. While I *am* looking for a life companion, I really enjoy living on my own and am in no hurry to find someone.
The end of a marriage sends ripples throughout the people associated with the former couple, and people cope in various ways. Friends trying to hook you up may simply be encouraging you to be out there and meeting people, or they may be signalling their support of your decision and their belief that you are indeed ready for a new relationship. Or they may be acting on their own fears associated with being alone (as others have mentioned). The important thing is to stay active and keep your activities diverse. Even if you have no interest in aloving life-long relationship, human interaction is important to psychological and all-around health, so don't cloister yourself.
Good luck, bro. I hope you enjoy every coming year more than the last, as I have done since my decision to split with my ex.
-Dave
Thanks Dave. I have a wide circle of friends, though by nature I'm a very solitary person. To quote an old song, "I have lots of friends I can ring up anytime and mobilize some laughs with just one call". But I'm not the kind to do that much. I'm fine... interaction once a month on game night is all I need... lol
And Queen_D has the right idea. They have good stuff.