'Splain somethin' to me....

DaveStebbins said:
Wow, talk about living parallel lives. I'm a year older than you and ended my 15-year marriage over two years ago for similar reasons. While I *am* looking for a life companion, I really enjoy living on my own and am in no hurry to find someone.

The end of a marriage sends ripples throughout the people associated with the former couple, and people cope in various ways. Friends trying to hook you up may simply be encouraging you to be out there and meeting people, or they may be signalling their support of your decision and their belief that you are indeed ready for a new relationship. Or they may be acting on their own fears associated with being alone (as others have mentioned). The important thing is to stay active and keep your activities diverse. Even if you have no interest in aloving life-long relationship, human interaction is important to psychological and all-around health, so don't cloister yourself.

Good luck, bro. I hope you enjoy every coming year more than the last, as I have done since my decision to split with my ex.

-Dave

Thanks Dave. I have a wide circle of friends, though by nature I'm a very solitary person. To quote an old song, "I have lots of friends I can ring up anytime and mobilize some laughs with just one call". But I'm not the kind to do that much. I'm fine... interaction once a month on game night is all I need... lol

And Queen_D has the right idea. They have good stuff.
 

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Hey there DMC.

First of I'm sorry to hear that things didn't work out with your wife & good on you for having the courage to bite the bullet and make the decision to go your seperate waya rather than exist in a marriage between strangers (we've ALL seen those around).

Your friends are probably just trying to be exactly that... friends when you need them. As for their approaches, well some people find solace in a good lay and post-coital cuddles, others in booze, others in drugs.

You have your coping strategy at teh moment - it sound like your just having alone time and getting to understand what being 'unmarried you' is all about. The main thing is that whatever coping strategy you use remember that it is all about tyring to cope. Most strategies are not long-term goers, and that goes for keeping to one's self as well.

As for being the crazy guy on the block - my cousin once spent 18 hours watching the lampost because he was certain that it was about to move. The lesson - don't eat whole nutmegs...

keep happy and try to go out of your comfort zone regularly - its the best way to grow in difficult circumstances.

Good luck and stay kool in school

Ben 'sidekick' Creet
 

Sidekick said:
As for being the crazy guy on the block - my cousin once spent 18 hours watching the lampost because he was certain that it was about to move. The lesson - don't eat whole nutmegs.

This made my whole morning. Thanks!!!
 

Sidekick said:
As for being the crazy guy on the block - my cousin once spent 18 hours watching the lampost because he was certain that it was about to move. The lesson - don't eat whole nutmegs...

The things you learn on the internet:

In low doses, nutmeg produces no noticeable effect on the body whatsoever. However, at higher doses (10g or more) it is a mild to medium hallucinogen, producing visuals and a comfortable effect almost similar to marijuana. There is a reason this is unpopular, though, as the effects last up to twenty-four hours after the initial peak, (approx. twelve hours after ingestion,) and have unpleasant side effects during the entire process, which linger for up to thirty-six hours. Nutmeg can also cause liver damage if used regularly in large quantities.

Nutmeg is extremely toxic when injected intravenously. Excessive consumption of the spice is also dangerous and can lead to death. Nutmeg has in the past been used as an abortifacient, and can also cause hallucinations when taken in excess, along with nausea, dehydration, and generalised body pain. Large doses (7.5 g or more in a single dose) are dangerous, producing convulsions and palpitations.

Nutmeg psychosis is an acute psychiatric disorder caused by the ingestion of around one to three whole nutmegs or an equal mass of ground nutmeg. Its symptoms include hallucinations, excitement, thought disorder, sense of impending death and agitation. Nutmeg is a toxic substance and a dosage of as little as 5g may cause a dry mouth, fast pulse, fever and flushing. It has amphetamine-like effects and may lead to the ingestion of large volumes of water. There is no specific antidote; the adverse effects wear off after 24 hours (or more) of rest.

The condition is almost always the result of deliberate experimentation in pursuit of the "legal high" or hallucinogenic effects, especially since nutmeg is easily purchased. Some cases have resulted in hospitalization and reportedly few who have experienced the effects of nutmeg poisoning recommend it or repeat the experience.
 

DungeonmasterCal said:
She's nuttier than a cashew plantation.
I don't have anything sage to add, just wanted to say thanks for this. There aren't enough turns of phrase like this (the Foghorn Leghorn quip, "That boy's about as sharp as a sack of wet mice," being one of my favorites), and this one made me laugh very much.

I wish you the best of luck with your struggles, and thanks again.

Warrior Poet
 

Warrior Poet said:
I don't have anything sage to add, just wanted to say thanks for this. There aren't enough turns of phrase like this (the Foghorn Leghorn quip, "That boy's about as sharp as a sack of wet mice," being one of my favorites), and this one made me laugh very much.

I wish you the best of luck with your struggles, and thanks again.

Warrior Poet

You are welcome. I'm from the south... we can make these things up on the spot. It's a gift. :)
 

DungeonmasterCal said:
You are welcome. I'm from the south... we can make these things up on the spot. It's a gift. :)

Two of my favorites:

Slicker than greased owl :):):):).

Busier than a two peckered owl.
 

reveal said:
Two of my favorites:

Slicker than greased owl :):):):).

Busier than a two peckered owl.
Lower than a rattlesnake's belly.

Busier than a one-legged man in an ass-kicking contest.

Slimier than two eels :):):):):):):) in a bucket of snot.

With apologies for that last one,

Warrior Poet
 

reveal said:
The things you learn on the internet:

In low doses, nutmeg produces no noticeable effect on the body whatsoever. However, at higher doses (10g or more) it is a mild to medium hallucinogen, producing visuals and a comfortable effect almost similar to marijuana. There is a reason this is unpopular, though, as the effects last up to twenty-four hours after the initial peak, (approx. twelve hours after ingestion,) and have unpleasant side effects during the entire process, which linger for up to thirty-six hours. Nutmeg can also cause liver damage if used regularly in large quantities.

Nutmeg is extremely toxic when injected intravenously. Excessive consumption of the spice is also dangerous and can lead to death. Nutmeg has in the past been used as an abortifacient, and can also cause hallucinations when taken in excess, along with nausea, dehydration, and generalised body pain. Large doses (7.5 g or more in a single dose) are dangerous, producing convulsions and palpitations.

Nutmeg psychosis is an acute psychiatric disorder caused by the ingestion of around one to three whole nutmegs or an equal mass of ground nutmeg. Its symptoms include hallucinations, excitement, thought disorder, sense of impending death and agitation. Nutmeg is a toxic substance and a dosage of as little as 5g may cause a dry mouth, fast pulse, fever and flushing. It has amphetamine-like effects and may lead to the ingestion of large volumes of water. There is no specific antidote; the adverse effects wear off after 24 hours (or more) of rest.

The condition is almost always the result of deliberate experimentation in pursuit of the "legal high" or hallucinogenic effects, especially since nutmeg is easily purchased. Some cases have resulted in hospitalization and reportedly few who have experienced the effects of nutmeg poisoning recommend it or repeat the experience.
At least now I know why people say "Dont try nutmeg."
 

Warrior Poet said:
Lower than a rattlesnake's belly.

Busier than a one-legged man in an ass-kicking contest.

Slimier than two eels :):):):):):):) in a bucket of snot.

With apologies for that last one,

Warrior Poet


an odd assortment from my grandmother: ":):):):) on a fencepost and hatched by the Sun"

"I wouldn't :):):):) you. You are my favorite turd."

"Fine as frog's hair"

"Useless as teets on a bull"

"Not the sharpest knife in the draw"
 

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