everyone gave some good insight, I'm afraid I am no closer now then I was when I started this thread to know what the right answer is... but thanks
I'm afraid I am no closer now then I was when I started this thread to know what the right answer is...
When playing with the kids we drop ability scores and just use the bonuses. Spread +9 around with no more than +3 in any one stat and only one -1 is allowed. Races don't give stat boosts.

(Dungeons & Dragons)
Rulebook featuring "high magic" options, including a host of new spells.