I would recommend connecting with the OSR RPG group on Facebook. It is not a coincidence that their logo is the LGBTQ unity flag; they do not suffer nonsense like we sometimes see from dark corners of the OSR universe.
This has been my experience just about everywhere when it comes to forums, subreddits, Discord servers, etc. (save for a few obvious ones), so confused on the discussion at hand, especially since we're posting on one of the best moderated sites on the internet.Even the more general Old School group I'm on on there (they aren't hyper-focused on D&D) has told people to knock that stuff off when it came up and booted a few people who wouldn't do it.
Hmm. I've eaten here many times and never seen those on the menu.

(Dungeons & Dragons)
Rulebook featuring "high magic" options, including a host of new spells.