Would that be Euro-splaining?How lovely is it to have an european explain to me what name should I call myself, all while ignoring everything I'm saying.
That's pretty unfair to John Wick. He's just a dude, and I wouldn't want him to get mauled by a bear even if his game designs aren't my bag of tea.Note to self ...
It's time to cross the streams.
John Wick vs. Cocaine Bear.
Problem is that for the listener, it's pretty hard to tell "This sucks and I'm going to tell you so you can empathize with me" from "This sucks and I'm going to tell you so you can fix it."To be fair, this is a pretty valid feeling to have; we all need space sometimes to just vent and be listened to and supported without someone trying to fix everything for you.
That said, I'm not entirely sure that an internet forum is going to be best space for that...
I suck at this even in "real" life. My instinct is to try and solve problems so I tend to not notice when people just want to vent. Recently I've been asking the people closest to me to tell me they just want to vent so I stop trying to fix things for them.Problem is that for the listener, it's pretty hard to tell "This sucks and I'm going to tell you so you can empathize with me" from "This sucks and I'm going to tell you so you can fix it."
Conan: That's Hasan I Sabah, strong on his mountain.1. The enemy of my enemy is my friend.
2. The friend of my enemy is my enemy.
3. Therefore, the friend of my friend is my enemy.
Hasan I Sabah's Introduction to Logic
I know right?I've seen some tone deaf posts before, but WOW.