I think we're too far apart to have a meaningful conversation about this. Just some basic, fundamental differences in our views about the nature of art and story, the relationship of an artist and their work, etc.
To address one thing, though: I'm not sure how much you know about Tolkien, but I'm reasonably certain he would have greatly disliked even Peter Jackson's films, and would have absolutely detested Rings of Power. So no, I don't think he'd be at all happy about the various adaptations of his stories, or at least disowned them as having no relation to his work beyond names and basic concepts.