Re: reduce person, the benefits make sense when vetted against spells that increase one's size. I just wanted to make sure I had the right of that regarding weapon and item size when leaving the owner's person.
Re: Maelicent disliking a sense of obligation, I wholeheartedly agree. At first I took his behaviour as a personal affront from Ambrus; it seemed like Maelicent's behaviour might have been Ambrus thumbing his nose at both me and this game. In latter weeks, however, I've grown to realize that (despite initially getting off on the wrong foot with me), Ambrus has been providing a pretty darn accurate portrayal of a goblin in a human city. I'm fine with it; in fact, Maelicent has benefitted from extra rp XP for the good job Ambrus has done with him.
I caveat the above, though, by expressing a profound unhappiness with PCs attacking and/or killing other PCs. I hope it never comes to that. The consequences would be unpleasant for characters and for the game as a whole.