The Summer of My Discombobulation

Nellisir

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This is definately a year for my record books. So far...

...we've found out my wife is pregnant, after 2+ years of trying (gender unknown, due December 9th, thank you, we're very excited), and....

...I've been laid off, which isn't that bad because I'm 1/2 of a 2 person company, and the other person is my dad, so I'm getting my job back when work comes back, and....

...in the meantime I'm finishing off my house (pregnant wives deserve nice kitchens, finished bedrooms with real ceilings, and railings on stairs), with generous financial support from my mother-in-law, who....

...just this morning missed a step, broke one ankle, sprained the other, and is in the hospital awaiting surgery. She's 70, widowed, lives alone in a large house, and drives a stick shift. Her sister lives in the next town, and my wife & I are the next closest relatives, 2 hours away.

So yes, that's right -- I get to go live with my mother-in-law!

My wife and I are headed up tomorrow to prep a downstairs room as a bedroom. We're planning on bringing most of my tools, plus stuff to keep me amused in the evenings. I've made it very clear I'm NOT doing nursing stuff -- I'm happy to drive her around, go shopping, cook food, do the laundry, and that sort of thing, but my duties end at the bathroom and bedroom doors. My first priority will be talking them into converting half the laundry room into a handicapped accessible bathroom ASAP -- one TINY 1/2 bath isn't going to cut it for a rather rotund woman on crutches. Her sister's already on board with this, so it's pretty much a go -- we just need to get their regular contractor into the loop.

I can't wait to see what next week brings.

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Nell.
 

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That's a pretty crazy list - I hope everything that happens for the next several months stays on the upside for you. :eek:

Congrats on the one in the oven!
 




Now that's an exciting summer! You're a great guy to help like that - good for you.

And it goes without saying, but congratulations on the impending cohort. :D
 

Nellisir said:
...I've been laid off, which isn't that bad because I'm 1/2 of a 2 person company, and the other person is my dad, so I'm getting my job back when work comes back, and....

Did he have security escort you out? Because that would be a bad sign...
 

Simplicity said:
Did he have security escort you out? Because that would be a bad sign...

No, but he's really crap about communicating, so it was actually about a week and a half long process. I knew we were really slow, so I voluntarily took a week of vacation to do some work (and it rained and mucked it all up), and then I worked one day, finishing up everything I needed to do, then called him each morning and got a sort of "nothing to do, just stay home and work on your house" response until he finally officially laid me off on Thursday.

Then it was another two weeks before he came out and said he wouldn't have work (really, money to pay me) for at least 2 months.

So, bit of a pain, really. The wife is Not Happy.
 

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