What about Parents?

I certainly don't have any trouble from my parents about my gaming. When I was quite young they actually played a few sessions (Basic D&D), my Mom DM'ed (and she was *not* a gamer). They didn't have much fun, but they had no issues with me playing it.

Through the years they were supportive and we were usually the house that hosted the game. They always sprang for the food and drink while we were in high school.

Now, many years later they ask about it every once and awhile and always buy the books on my Christmas list. So they appear to be just fine with it.
 

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Thanks for all the responses. It sounds like there is quite a mix out there. I enjoyed hearing about the grandparents who were interested as I always found my own grandparents to be surprising. Some of the stories made me laugh, and others made me sad. It will be interesting to see how my kids percieve gaming when they grow up. My husband and I are pretty sure they will be along the lines of "I can't believe my parents still game. It was fun when we were kids but, grow up already ;)
 
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Eeralai said:
It will be interesting to see how my kids percieve gaming when they grow up. My husband and I are pretty sure they will be along the lines of "I can't believe my parents still game. It was fun when we were kids but, grow up already ;)
Funny, though I think it would be any gamers dream come true to have their kids be gamers too. Perfect for those weeknights when any other plans they have fall through. They could play a game of DnD or whatnot with their siblings and folks!
 

My mother, when she met my wife for the first time, apologized that "he plays those d&d games". She was horrified to hear my wife respond "I know, we met playing live action vampire" :p

My dad thinks it's basicaly for losers, but it helped me meet people and get hitched.
My mom still thinks d&d is a tool of the Devil, but has resigned to my eternal damnation. :heh:

Ah well, you can't pick your family... :D
 

Frukathka said:
Funny, though I think it would be any gamers dream come true to have their kids be gamers too. Perfect for those weeknights when any other plans they have fall through. They could play a game of DnD or whatnot with their siblings and folks!

True that. Right now our six year old is crazy about Heroscape, so we will enjoy it while it lasts :)
 

Dread October said:
The thing that I'm curious about is this:

I now run games for Hish School aged kids and when I started doing this I figured that their parents would want to know who the 35 yearold guy is that their kids are spending time with 2x per month for several hours at a time. I couldn't have been more wrong. Out of 10 kids, I have met 3 sets of parents and IIRC only on set has actually had a conversation with me greater than "Yeah, my kid is weird huh?"

This is a stunner to me. When I started gaming my parents went through that thing with the gamer stereotypes but after that, it was a big deal that they knew what I was doing and who with. Now, I have 10 kids who have cell phone and a good kick in the tail to just get out of the house. IS anyone else running games for kids and experiencing this?

Dread October

To make you feel better, when I was a teacher, some fellow teachers were lamenting they couldn't find anyone they knew to teach their kids how to play D&D. Being enthusiastic, I volunteered my then fiance now husband to teach them. The kids were between ten and 14. Apparently it went well because they are still coming over every Friday night and one of them just got married. One of the parents plays with us and the others said it was nice their kids had some place safe to go on Friday night.
 

im 20, live with my parents, and they don't really seem to care what i do for the most part...

they are just as indifferent to me going out and drinking on a sat night as they are to gaming on a friday night :P
 

Here's my story:

It's 1992, and I'm in Junior High, and I've got a friend who is interested in D&D, and he think's I'd be someone to game with. I know Console RPG's well enough (being a big fan of Final Fantasy, Dragon Warrior, even the NES version of Pool of Radiance) and had heard the name Dungeons and Dragons and seen the old cartoon when I was little (besides knowing the NES D&D game back and forth). He loans me a few books to raise my interest, and I read them voraciously. My dad walks into my room and sees all this, and throws a royal fit, telling me that's satanic, it's devil worship materals, reading that will drive me to suicide and murder, and where did I get this. It was all returned to my friend (and I was discouraged by him from seeing him anymore). My dad "knew" all this because he'd heard a sermon in church years before about the evils of D&D and the "facts" that it was just a thinly veiled cult recruiting scheme and was this quick route to madness and satanism.

I still wanted to play D&D, and my mom honestly didn't care, so I'd bought a handful of D&D books and kept them well hidden in my room, but I was never able to find anybody to game with. In later years I discovered the Star Wars RPG and bought books for it ravenously, in full view of my dad. He asked "what ya got there son?" and I would just answer "Star wars books" and it would be the end of it. Sailed right under the radar. I finally found players, and began my actual gaming career with the d6 Star Wars RPG.

In later years, my dad still never knew I gamed for many years, until he visited my apartment and saw the bookcase full of D&D books (which he didn't comment to me at all, and made just a passing disapproving comment to my mom later, which she shrugged off and told him if I was going to join a cult or commit suicide I would have years ago, since I'd been playing for about 7 years at that point).

My mom thinks it's just a little weird, but it's no worse than a poker night with friends, and she admits she really doesn't understand it but it's apparently harmless.

The fantasy LARPing I do sometimes really confuses her, and she thought it was pretty immature, until I explained that it's a combination of camping, rennaissance fairs, and paintball games, and she at least kinda understood it at that point. As far as my dad knows, I just go camping with friends for a weekend a few times a year.
 

I'm 26 and I haven't lived at home since I was 16, yet my mother routinely wonders if I'm still doing that 'wierd gaming thing' or if its 'something that you shouldn't be doing'. My sister however just calls it 'wierd, but than again so are you'.

I don't bother explaining it at this point, and God forbid my mother ever read some of the material that I've written without getting an explanation first. *chuckle*

Not that I honestly care though.
 

My wife and I are getting ready to have children, and I hope to whatever powers that be that my children will take an interest in RPGs. I think the traditional "family camping trip" could be so much more fun with a good module to play through.
:)
 

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