There's no soft ban. The players themselves came up with the apparently novel concept that horses can't climb walls and a size large creature will have difficulty in dungeons. All of us in my group understand what makes sense and what doesn't.
Size Medium creature, says it right there in the book.
But I guess that is another rule you find silly and decided to change.
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So your character is the equivalent of a Michelangelo art piece? Ok. You need to be at my table. Because if it is that good, then all of us need you to play at our table.
Just going to ignore Little Suzy and the Jazz musician then?
Selective reading doesn't make my point something it wasn't.
I have answered. And answered. If you have a new question, ask. I will try to answer.
And the second you answered, you started acusing me of changing my position, because I tried to move on from the question into the next point.
So, why would I want to get accused of bad faith arguing, yet again?
First question: As stated by my thesis that I have stated twenty times - yes. As per DMG, PHB, Tasha's, Xanathar's and almost every D&D publication from 1st edition.
Second Question: You are allowed to take offense. You are allowed to ask the DM for an alternative. You are allowed to give your input. You are allowed to express your side. You are even still allowed to make the character you wanted - race and all. And then convince the DM. (They still have the last say.) Save the character for another day. Or find another table. Or better yet, trust your DM that they know what they are doing and create something that fits in the initial framework.
I'm sorry, "Better yet"?
I'm actually running a... ugh, best way to describe it is a "twitch plays DnD" with a Changeling Character. Yet, Johnny (believe it was) says that Changelings are lazy storytelling. It would be better to trust that my 109K DnD story is lazy, than to tell Johnny that he is wrong, and that judging the character we have built entirely off of the race and a few bad tropes is wrong?
I specifically said in the example that they are being judgemental, and the "better yet" is to trust them?
If I just "trusted" people from ealier in this thread, I would never play anything other than a human because that is the only race worth playing. That's what those DMs were saying, so I should just trust that they are right?
Why? What have they done to earn trust by judging my character concept as poorly written, mister "to each their own, no judgement here"?
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Need I remind you that, before they were instructed to leave the thread, Pming said exactly this sort of thing? That non-humans were subjected to open and overt racist behavior until the player ceased to be a "problem"? Your sarcasm is a bit specious when we've had this exact attitude openly and earnestly expressed in this very thread.
It is also something I explicitly argued with Max about regarding Tabaxi.
But, it seems that it was his players who decided Centaurs don't follow their own rules, so it has likely never come up at his table.
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Arguments from one person in the thread on a side do not apply to all on that side. If he wants to ask me a question about it, fine. If he wants to approach me that way, he's going to get that response as that is the response it deserves.
I am applying things you yourself have said, not P Ming. But, if you think remembering what you've said in the past deserves that response, well, here we are.
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Between this thread and the erosion of racial distinctiveness post-Tasha's, I'm toying with a "Wild Cards"-like setting in which all the non-human races are humans who have survived but been changed by a magical disease.
There are different nations and cultures, but they are not built around race. "Changed" humans, whether elf, dwarf, halfling, gnome, dragonborn, tiefling, tabaxi, shifter, warforged, centaur, satyr, triton, loxodon, kobold, orc, goblin, or whatever, are a known quantity and are tolerated - or not - based on culture and individual preference.
With this, the default response to a player asking, "Can I play Race X?" is, "Sure, you got changed by the disease."
This is basically the idea behind Shadowrun, and it is amazing.
I'm actually toying with, in my new setting, having humans be very susceptible to magical influences, and putting Genasi, Aasimar, Tieflings, Shifters, and... I think there was one more, oh right, the Yuan-Ti, as subraces of humans.
It is a bit more complicated than that, but it is still in very early development.
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I never suggested putting them outside with a bowl of warm milk. An Inn may not have centaur capable rooms, but the stables comment was beyond the pale.
Well, at least you aren't denying that I was referring to ideas that you yourself put out.
And, curious, no Centaur capable room, it is very cold outside... where are you going to offer the Centaur to sleep at the the inn? The inn that, since you keep saying they are large, they likely don't even fit inside?
Maybe I was less "beyond the pale" and more "seen this song and dance"