billd91
Not your screen monkey (he/him) 🇺🇦🇵🇸🏳️⚧️
In a word, no. In more words, that may work for you, but there are types of games I am not interested in running and will not do so because I'm not the players' screen monkey. We're in this cooperatively and that means we have to both be on board - on both sides of the screen.My take is that it was unreasonable, but from the opposite direction. In my view - and, sadly, I think this view was more common in days of old than it is now - it's not the DM's place to shut the players down like you're describing above. Instead, I see it as the DM's job to roll with whatever the players try to have their PCs do, and have the setting and-or NPCs react accordingly.
What people need to do is communicate with each other when they're getting into territory they don't want to play. And I really hope that people are getting better at that than back in the 1980s when we were kids and handled this sort of thing poorly - often by railroading away an out of game scope issue with an in-game complication.