One of the last groups I DMed for was composed 50% or so of people in the LGBTQ community.
This is pretty typical for the AL games I ran, at least at one store. In the city I'm in now, multiple game shops are explicitly pitched at a LGBTQ audience and there are some rpg groups marketed that way as well. Wizards would be fools not to include representation in their marketing. It's such an important audience.
Say you hate pepperoni. You walk into a pizza place where loads of people are seeming to enjoy pepperoni pizza. What do you want to get out of telling them how much you dislike pepperoni? What do you expect their response to be the first time you do it? The tenth? The hundredth?
I picked this to respond to from the conversation with
@Micah Sweet because I like the way it's phrased.
I guess I'd say: I'm young enough to be part of their target demographic now, and have been aging into a juicer consumer population every year. And you know what? It's
great. They rerelease movies I love, publish books and make tv shows that have the representation I want and which was often not present before, and which deal with topics that I find timely and important. At some point the music in the grocery store became all things I like rather than things I associate with my parents.
I haven't been on the reverse side, but I imagine it sucks. We had another thread talking about the social and mental health benefits to rpg groups. If rpgs were really important to you socially, or a part of your identity, or even just a hobby you spend loads of time on, finding out it isn't any longer for you is not going to be a pleasant experience. That doesn't mean the right response is to join the toxic fandom. It's probably a mix of wisdom and humility and willingness to accept negative change.
But, you know, I guess I would just like to acknowledge that it probably is hard and unpleasant to experience the landscape changing like that, and I've got some sympathy if it takes some time to come to terms with. (But not sympathy for becoming hostile and exclusionary as a result--I want to be clear about that).