"You're a half elf? Really?" From the P.A. Podcasts

Umm, no?

Please show me where I said that. In fact, there are numerous places where I say the exact opposite of that.

My main argument is, if you're going to play something, PLAY IT. Portray it in such a way that everyone at the table has an idea of what you are.

That does not mean (again for the umpteenth time) you need to go around beating your chest crying "I am Klingon" every time you turn around. All it takes is, ((hang on, I'll do it really big so you won't miss it yet again))

30 SECONDS

of effort once in a while.

Is that clear enough?

First off, I'm the one who gives the random capitalizations and big bold texts ;p

Second...no. It's not.

You're still putting way, WAY more emphasis on race then I think even people of that race do.

If someone makes an elf who acts like a human, so what? Maybe "elf" isn't a core part of who they are. Hell, in some settings, it doesn't matter at all. Al-Qadim puts emphasis that ALL races are city dwellers first and foremost, that the racial stereotypes don't take hold, and that the racial hatreds don't apply. Eberron city elves act far more human then they do elvish, as do the half elves.

Again, you seem to have a huge bug up somewhere about this. I get that the race matters a whole lot to you...but you're demanding that everyone else feel the same way.
 

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Was it this one guy or was he only one of a couple of times elf players have ticked you off? Any bad experiences with half-elves as well?

Honestly, I haven't seen all that many half-elves that come to mind, so, that's actually a bit of a non-issue. It's been my experience that the vast majority of players who play elves though, play humans that can see in the dark. It's my pet peeve, and I believe I've admitted to such more than a few times here. :)

ProfC said:
You're still putting way, WAY more emphasis on race then I think even people of that race do.

Look, if I decided to play a character that was female (I'm male), but did absolutely nothing to bring this up at the table, my first question would be, why? Why did I gender bend then proceed to play a character that has no cues that it is female?

For the same reason, I would not play a black character TBH. I'm not sure I could pull it off without it being stereotype and quite possibly offensive. I'm not into gaming to annoy people (honestly :p) and I don't think I'm capable of pulling it off.

That's my basic point here. If you choose something for your character, no matter what it is, there should be a reason for it. It doesn't matter what that choice is really - class, race, alignment - there's no difference in my mind. They are all important. Not equally important, I totally agree with that. I'm not saying race should always get as much spotlight time as, say, class, which is likely going to get a lot more time in the game.

But, it should get a sliver of spotlight time. At least enough time that no one else at the table turns to you and says with surprise, "You're a what? Since when?"

Storminator said:
Are you sure it's Omin's fault?

Didn't you, despite the many, many, many references to Omin as the CEO, the boss, the founder of Acquisitions Inc., the hiring manager, the writer of the articles of incorporation, etc, still think Binwin was in charge?

Perhaps the fault lies elsewhere...

Umm, dude? Did you miss the part in the podcast where the OTHER PLAYERS didn't know he was a half elf? This has nothing to do with my lack of attention span. :)
 

Look, if I decided to play a character that was female (I'm male), but did absolutely nothing to bring this up at the table, my first question would be, why? Why did I gender bend then proceed to play a character that has no cues that it is female?

That says a lot more about you then other people, though. Namely, you feel the need to assume that women, and elves, and dwarves, and male humans, all have something inherent about them that's different.

For the same reason, I would not play a black character TBH. I'm not sure I could pull it off without it being stereotype and quite possibly offensive. I'm not into gaming to annoy people (honestly :p) and I don't think I'm capable of pulling it off.

Again, the racism isn't from you having to be a stereotype, it's when you say "I can't play a black character because they're different from white ones."

That's my basic point here. If you choose something for your character, no matter what it is, there should be a reason for it. It doesn't matter what that choice is really - class, race, alignment - there's no difference in my mind. They are all important. Not equally important, I totally agree with that. I'm not saying race should always get as much spotlight time as, say, class, which is likely going to get a lot more time in the game.

But you're refusing to admit that the choice might be "because I felt like it." As I've been saying, you're putting a whole lot of emphasis on this belief that a person's race says something inherent about them. And both myself and a number of people here think you're incorrect about this.

But, it should get a sliver of spotlight time. At least enough time that no one else at the table turns to you and says with surprise, "You're a what? Since when?"

At which point that party member can say verbatim what I've been saying: "Just because I'm <race> doesn't mean I have to <act specific way>."
 

Umm, dude? Did you miss the part in the podcast where the OTHER PLAYERS didn't know he was a half elf? This has nothing to do with my lack of attention span. :)

No, that's my whole point. One of the players (the one with the same attention span as you...) says "Omin is a half-elf?" and the other says "he's always been a half-elf." So just because Omin's fellows are asleep at the table (kind of like you... get the point I was making? it's the inattentive one at fault? See? Get it? ...what about now? ;)) doesn't make Omin's player a bad RPer.

PS
 

No, that's my whole point. One of the players (the one with the same attention span as you...) says "Omin is a half-elf?" and the other says "he's always been a half-elf." So just because Omin's fellows are asleep at the table (kind of like you... get the point I was making? it's the inattentive one at fault? See? Get it? ...what about now? ;)) doesn't make Omin's player a bad RPer.

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Meh, again, I was simply pointing to this as an example. An example of something I've seen over and over again from people who play elves. Apparently people seem to think that there is absolutely no differences between genders or ethnicity or race and we're all pretty much just exact carbon copies of each other.

I would point to a whole slew of media and writing that says that you're wrong. That there really are actual differences between, say, men and women. I know it might not be politically correct to say so, but, there really are differences there. Honest.

To be honest, I wasn't sure who said Omin has always been a half elf. He's certainly not drawn as one in the comics. But, again, for the umpteenth bloody time, IT WAS AN EXAMPLE.

Look, after this long, people have started just arguing me instead of the point I'm trying to make, so, like I said a few pages back, it's time for me to bow out.

I leave with this final thought. Yes, it's perfectly fine for "It sounds fun" to be a reason to choose something. But, my question is, "Why? Why does it sound fun? What about that particular choice makes it appealing to you? If your character behaves in all ways EXACTLY the same regardless of what race (or whatever the choice happens to be) you choose, then how does choosing something different add to your fun? If your female character acts in all ways exactly the same as your male character, then how is writing female on your character sheet enhancing your fun?"

And, despite several pages of this thread, NOT ONE of you has answered that. Not one person has bothered to explain why ignoring this enhances enjoyment at the table. I've stated that ignoring choices actually hurts the fun at the table because it robs the rest of the players of the chance to role play as well.

So, if your choice makes zero difference to how you will play this character, why did you make the choice?
 

Meh, again, I was simply pointing to this as an example. An example of something I've seen over and over again from people who play elves. Apparently people seem to think that there is absolutely no differences between genders or ethnicity or race and we're all pretty much just exact carbon copies of each other.

I would point to a whole slew of media and writing that says that you're wrong. That there really are actual differences between, say, men and women. I know it might not be politically correct to say so, but, there really are differences there. Honest.

To be honest, I wasn't sure who said Omin has always been a half elf. He's certainly not drawn as one in the comics. But, again, for the umpteenth bloody time, IT WAS AN EXAMPLE.

Yes, it is an example - but one that really works against you. The main reason why? Because you called it out as an example of something 'wrong' with this approach to gaming, when the people playing in that game are clearly having fun.

Look, after this long, people have started just arguing me instead of the point I'm trying to make, so, like I said a few pages back, it's time for me to bow out.

I leave with this final thought. Yes, it's perfectly fine for "It sounds fun" to be a reason to choose something. But, my question is, "Why? Why does it sound fun? What about that particular choice makes it appealing to you? If your character behaves in all ways EXACTLY the same regardless of what race (or whatever the choice happens to be) you choose, then how does choosing something different add to your fun? If your female character acts in all ways exactly the same as your male character, then how is writing female on your character sheet enhancing your fun?"

And, despite several pages of this thread, NOT ONE of you has answered that. Not one person has bothered to explain why ignoring this enhances enjoyment at the table. I've stated that ignoring choices actually hurts the fun at the table because it robs the rest of the players of the chance to role play as well.

So, if your choice makes zero difference to how you will play this character, why did you make the choice?

There can be many reasons to make a choice without it having to be a major one. I've always wanted to play a dwarf. I just read a book about a cool tiefling character. The campaign starts in a human city. Elves just seem to fit a woodland character. A player could easily have some small, minor reason when they chose their character, and then have it never come up in actual game play, or never matter to them enough to bring it up or make a big deal of it.

Or sometimes choices are made for reasons of optimization - one can still roleplay that character despite the motive. Or they can make the choice, and focus on other aspects of the character, which is also acceptable. Or, honestly, they can not worry about roleplaying at all - that doesn't inherently make them a worse gamer, just means they might not fit in with certain groups of players.

Here is the thing, though - there is no damage done. You claim it "robs the rest of the players of the chance to role play as well" - which is absurd. There is no set amount of topics on which one can roleplay. The lack of mention of a character's race doesn't mean the party sits in absolute silence for the five minutes they would have spent RPing their feelings about that character's race - instead, they spend those five minutes doing other roleplaying. Or cracking jokes, or rolling dice and slaying enemies, or any of the other myriad parts of D&D that people enjoy.

Not being able to comment on someone's race does not remotely deprive people of their fun - while forcing someone to roleplay exactly according to your own personal rules? Yeah, that can drain the fun out the game instantly.

You've claimed that no one has been willing to answer your question - but you, equally, have repeatedly refused to answer mine:

Do you really feel that players focusing on their class as a defining element rather than their race makes them 'bad roleplayers'?

Do you honestly believe that people that don't put an emphasis on roleplaying, or simply don't roleplay enough aspects of their character, are somehow worse gamers?

If you don't believe those statements... then I have no idea what this discussion is about. Everyone plays the game for different reasons and in different ways. There shouldn't be a problem with that. If you do believe those statements... then all I can say is that your outlook is one I vehemently disagree with, and the sort of attitude that represents the worst of what this hobby has to offer.

I honestly don't know if that is what you believe - your initial post seemed to represent more a lack of understanding why other people might play differently than you, but as people have continued to answer that question (and you have continually refused to accept their explanations), you seem to much more be making a value judgement here. That there is something wrong with how they play. That is personally offends you when someone doesn't play up their race.

I'm not sure what else to tell you. Why would someone play as a non-human race and then not mention the race? I can think of hundreds of reasons, but can't offer you one universal one - it will vary from player to player in every instance. But in the end, each player will have had a reason for making that decision - so the question is, why do they need to justify their reason to you, if they are having a good time playing the game in their own fashion?
 

Meh, again, I was simply pointing to this as an example. An example of something I've seen over and over again from people who play elves. Apparently people seem to think that there is absolutely no differences between genders or ethnicity or race and we're all pretty much just exact carbon copies of each other.

I would point to a whole slew of media and writing that says that you're wrong. That there really are actual differences between, say, men and women. I know it might not be politically correct to say so, but, there really are differences there. Honest.

And as someone who has and continues to work with gender and ethnic studies alongside social psychology, no, the differences are far smaller then you or the media thinks they are.

Hell, look at the internet. At how easy it is to masquerade as a different ethnicity or gender just by stating you are such gender/ethnicity. Lots of people out there get honestly surprised by some people when they state they're a girl, not because "hurr durr no girls on the internet," but because the person in question never mentioned being one.

Again, you are driving this quite frankly incorrect opinion as a fact, that all genders and ethnicities have inherently different ways of thinking.
 

Again, you are driving this quite frankly incorrect opinion as a fact, that all genders and ethnicities have inherently different ways of thinking.

However, they almost always look different. More people should use figures or pictures for their dnding so people can keep track of such things.
 

So how exactly do you roleplay a half-elf? If your character's a dwarf, you can say, "By Thorin's beard!" or be an angry drunk. If your character is a dragonborn, you could put on an honorable warrior hat. If your character is a halfling, you talk about, what, your riverboating days? Your tiefling could brood and get kicked out of places? Half-elves can, like, uh... talk about their mixed heritage? Half-elves don't have a hat you can put on so everyone says "Oh, half-elf!" What could the guy in the podcast have done to make you realize that?
 

Well, people asked nicely, so I'll keep playing. :)

Mr. Myth said:
You've claimed that no one has been willing to answer your question - but you, equally, have repeatedly refused to answer mine:

Do you really feel that players focusing on their class as a defining element rather than their race makes them 'bad roleplayers'?

Nope. I believe I stated this repeatedly. I KNOW I stated repeatedly that you do not have to make race a defining element.

Do you honestly believe that people that don't put an emphasis on roleplaying, or simply don't roleplay enough aspects of their character, are somehow worse gamers?

Nope. However, I do think they are worse role players. If person A portrays all aspects of his character and person B portrays only a subset of the aspects, Person A is a better role player. How can he not be?

Being a better role player has nothing to do with fun or being a "good gamer". I can easily say that Actor A is better than Actor B but, that doesn't mean that I don't enjoy Actor B's movies. There are great actors and there are good actors and there are bad actors. I've enjoyed movies with all three types.

In the same way, I can enjoy a hack and slash, kick in the door game as much as the next guy. However, I'm not about to pass that off as a great role playing session.

ProfC said:
Again, you are driving this quite frankly incorrect opinion as a fact, that all genders and ethnicities have inherently different ways of thinking.

So, according to you, I could change Luke Skywalker to Lucy Skywalker, change none of the dialogue in the rest of the movie, change none of the scenes, and it should make absolutely no difference in the movie?

Or, perhaps in the new Sherlock Holmes movie, Watson could be played by Nicole Kidman and it would be exactly the same story?

Or, we could have Morgan Freeman's character in Robin Hood Prince of Thieves be played by a white actor and it would make no difference to that story?

After all, you're claiming that there are absolutely no differences in gender or race, therefore we should be able to swap out any actor in any role and tell exactly the same story and no one would notice.

chitzk0i said:
So how exactly do you roleplay a half-elf? If your character's a dwarf, you can say, "By Thorin's beard!" or be an angry drunk. If your character is a dragonborn, you could put on an honorable warrior hat. If your character is a halfling, you talk about, what, your riverboating days? Your tiefling could brood and get kicked out of places? Half-elves can, like, uh... talk about their mixed heritage? Half-elves don't have a hat you can put on so everyone says "Oh, half-elf!" What could the guy in the podcast have done to make you realize that?

Well, let's use the podcast as a specific example.

Wil Wheaton added the eladrin character. So, right there, there's your in. "Oh, you're an eladrin. My mother told me many stories of the Eladrin homeland. I'd love to see it sometime."

They went to a bar - "Do you have any ((Insert elven sounding wine here))?"

Most people of mixed heritages are curious about their heritages to some degree. Show a bit of curiousity once in a while and that cements in everyone's head that you are half-elven.

You could certainly reverse it as well. If your half-elf was raised mostly elven, have him ask about human stuff.
 

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