What fiction you reading? The wizard is generally better than everyone else. I want my games modeled on fiction, not on game balance where I'm worried about "being better than everyone else" as you put it.
No, they aren't. Wizards are deus ex machina or antagonists that go down like a chump. The protagonist is
never a D&D wizard. Magic is never the answer to anything in fiction and mythology - and frequently is the answer to
nothing.
I watched movies like Conan where Thulsa Doom was indeed better than everyone else until Conan caught him alone and cut his head off.
Conan murders wizards all the time. He's a one man wizard killing machine.
Where Raistlin is indeed better than everyone else.
Really? This is your argument? Using a
D&D book to prove a point about fiction and D&D?
Where Gandalf is the only one that can go against the Balrog or battle the Witch King of Angmar on equal ground.
First off, Gandalf is Michael the Archangel, not a level 5 wizard.
Secondly, Gandalf doesn't do anything against the Balrog. He doesn't do much against the Witch King of Angmar. Gandalf doesn't really do a whole lot of magic at all, because he's not the protagonist, he's the walking deus ex machina.
Where Merlin is the powerful person in the Arthurian legends and could take out any of the knights if they were to go head to head.
Merlin was
the antichrist, not a level 5 wizard, for starters.
Secondly, again, what does he do? Merlin doesn't do a whole lot of magic. What he does is present
knowledge. That's the role of most wizards - to provide deus ex machina and to give knowledge.
You are factually incorrect.
When you read novels, when you read mythology, when you watch TV shows and movies, when you play video games, the protagonists are universally warriors and fighters and rogues and martial characters. Conan, d'Artagnan, Solomon Kane, Fafhrd, the
entire LotR crew, Sinbad, Roland, Hercules, Odysseus, Beowulf, Fionn Mac Cumhaill, Cu Chulainn, Sigurd.
Fiction and fantasy is almost entirely based on warriors doing awesome stuff.
Even the characters with magic spend far more time
not using it then they do using it. Harry Dresden doesn't cast Time Stop then Fly then Fireball to solve his problems, he uses his wit and his deduction. Harry Potter uses friendship and knowledge, not raw arcane might. Turjan spends most of his time swashbuckling - hell, he only knows three spells throughout most of the book. The Grey Mouser is 99% thief with only 1% wizardry.
Let's give an example. The first Harry Potter movie (never read the book :B) is a perfect example of your standard hero's quest, and has the standard hero's quest ending. Several trials face the protagonist and side kicks - and each one is solved differently. At the Death Plants, Hermoine utilizes superior knowledge to understand the task and how to escape it. At the chess board, Ron uses tactics and quick thinking - along with sacrifice - to surpass it. Harry has to rely on his own
very physical capabiities in flight to grab the key. And finally, the BBEG is defeated not by a Slay Bad Guy spell, but by the deus ex machina of love.
No wizardry needed.
Even the D&D books follow this pattern. You mentioned Raistlin, but Raistlin
doesn't do much. He's missing for a fair enough chunk, and most the time he's jabbing with his dagger or just staying out of the fight. The only times his magic becomes God Mode is when he
is no longer a protagonist and is using it as deus ex machina. When he's an actual part of the group, what does he do? The same thing all wizards do! He imparts
knowledge!