I believe I have the right to defend myself when being slandered.
Here's my posts, since I think it's been forgotten what I actually said:
reapersaurus said:
Kitana - I'm kind of confused about your character currently.
(All of this is IMO, and take the observations or ignore tham at your leaisure)
I then went on to point out some very applicable and helpful things, I think.
Kitana, you responded that the things that didn't make sense to me were inspired by YOUR actual life and personality.
Next post, you mentioned things were slow on the weekends.
I had some time on my hands, and interest in the game and our characters, so I posted a opinion about the rolls, to hopefully help explain the dice system in V:tM (many of us playing are new to the system):
Let's look a bit further at the much-maligned Storyteller dice roll mechanic:
How good REALLY is 4 success rolls?
After some ideas exchange, I made sure AGAIN that it was OK to discuss things:
edit: is it OK to use Caitlyn's singing example during a discussion of Vampire rules, and how they have to be carefully approached to properly model what is going on in our party scene?
Then you questioned me about my character:
oh, I have a question about Victoria was she supposed to be sort of equal in talent, etc, to Cate? That's the jist of what I got from your post. And if so, and she was already well-known and stuff with a bodyguard (you) does that mean that your face is a well-known face? A Murder-suicide with celebrities make news.
I responded:
great questions.
Since you mentioned it, I'll address both.
then went on to mention that 9 dice as a human eclipses most vampires, and with a 21 human freebie point system, it makes the Embrace problematic from a character generation standpoint.
All very polite, non-critical, and shared discussion (but I still checked to be absolutely sure you were OK talking about rules and your character: "I'm not making ANY judgments about Caitlyn, or the character sheet - I'm just giving observations about how the game is impacted by rules decisions"
Then your next post kind of confused me.
In it, you posted that you didn't see how Caitlyn affects any of our characters whatsoever, and asked me more direct questions about Nikolai (that were mostly already answered in my story link, even).
I answered your questions, posted the link again, and even said:
(I appreciate the work for my character - discussion is always fun, and helps me flesh him out more in my mind)
I don't see, though, how you could be missing how Caitlyn's skills (and especially attributes) don't affect others in the party.
I went on to describe the ways that 2 Charismatic and Beautiful characters can impact each another's characters.
I'm pretty sure you completely forget me saying this next part (since you accused me of doing exactly this today):
Please you guys, do whatever works in the game and is fun, I'm just responding to what you're saying for some dialogue on the weekend.
Don't read this like I'm pushing for you to do or change anything.
You said:
And there are plenty of different ways to be charismatic and beautiful because everyone is unique.
Besides I originally got the impression that she was going to be seductive older woman archetype.
Then I replied:
There's nothing wrong with 2 beautiful women, that's for damn sure LOL but when 2 people are playing the same instrument, there's only so many notes on the scale, if youknowwhatimean.
And I know you went over your clan ideas - I still don't get how she's anything but Toreador.
I'm sorry. I'm being superficial, because I don't know you, and can't project well to get a good picture of a personality until I see the way you play you.. I mean her (Caitlyn) - damn, it's confusing that you put a lot of yourself in the character of Caitlyn.
to which you answered:
Besides, it doesn't bother me at all if Vych is high up on charisma and appearance at all so why should it matter?
So unless it bothers Vych, let us play the characters we want to play and SHUSH =P reaper shush.
Later, Vych added her thoughts, playfully.
Then you kind of went off a bit on me, methinks:
LOL okay my turn for a long rant. What? I have 2 for every 5 reaper puts in, hehe
Well for starters with all this talk, Cate is still human and she'll be human for a while as far as I know unless Ash has something in mind.
I'm also more of a roleplaying person and less of a dice person. So having dice to back me up is nice, but I'm counting more on my ability to invoke the correct response with my writing. I've never played Vampire before so I don't really understand what the problems are with it all.
Also about him talking to you about stats, he'd have better luck convincing you about yours than me cuz I'm not the wife and honestly he's got no pull over me whatsoever, hehe. Besides I've never had a chance to play Cate before whereas you've already played Vych before.
Anyway, if Ash thought there would be a problem, he would have said something before we were so invested in it all. So I'm guessing its all okee dokee.
I don't mind discussing characters and things like that but if he wants to truly be fair, he needs to bring up Vych as part of the "inequality" or whatever exactly he's referring to instead of basically saying "Vych can't do this because of Cate".
Well, frankly my dear, I don't give a damn.
I responded, already censoring myself because I could tell your hackles were unnecessarily raising:
you're more than welcome to rant, but that post left me a bit confused.
I read it 3 times, but I just didn't get the gist of what you're saying.
not that that matters, mind you, i just thought i'd let you know....
I don't know of too many people that concentrate on the rules too much - maybe because they get in the way of the kinds of stories that people want to tell, and characters that people want to play?
I think I'm going to throw away the rulebook for this game.
I think the In-Character thread is quite stunning so far, so the rules don't matter - let's just keep with the creative writing -
Kitana - the interspersing of very-appropriate lyrics with your characters thoughts was impressive.
you responded:
Don't bug me about Cate's stats interfering with Vych's stats, bug Vych about her stats interfering with Cate's stats. You'll get more headway with her than you'll ever get with me.
I see your points, but I completely disagree with your end assessment about how Cate and Vych sharing similiar interests or attributes would be detrimental to the game in any way.
I don't mind discussing characters, but I dislike it when people complain that my choice of character might disrupt their fun.
Vych and Cate are unique characters.
And yes, if you stick your head in the rules too much you forget to enjoy the game so just enjoy it! And let the story take you where it wants to take you.
Hopefully everyone, including you, is beginning to see a pattern here.
I politely discuss things of a (IMO) undeniably helpful, engaging content, then you take things personally, or defensively, or something.
I don't know.... I don't see how you could possibly have taken what I posted and remembered it as you have today, magnifying it into a personal attack on you, with me being a hypocrite that is needing you to change your character?
huh?
So at this point, I could see you were going the wrong direction with the day's vampire discussion, and bowed out.
You then replied to my well-taken response to Shalimar re: Sabrina with :
I think me, Jemal, Shalimar went the route of making our stats fit our character ideas rather than trying to figure out how to make them the most powerful.
I hope I didn't start all this by giving her the two 5's.
So here you began to paint me in your mind and words as a munchkin who only cares about stats with Nikolai, while simultaneously remembering that I called you on your two 5 scores.
I never did.