Lan-"8 years in and the highest-level PC in my current campaign is getting close to 10th, but 3 of those came from a lucky Deck effect"-efan
Hang on. This means that they advanced 5 levels from earnt XP... over
8 years of play, with 42-46 sessions per year?
That averages to nearly 2 years of real time, and around 70 sessions of play to advance a single level.
I find a level a month of real time works best personally (and DnD works to this expectation, with most groups getting in one session per week, with around 3-5 encounters per session, and around 4 such sessions to level.
No offence mate, but your group is an extreme outlier when it comes to level advancement. I personally could never play in a game with such slow level advancement.
Yeah. I also mean no offense to you, Lanefan, as I discuss all this stuff with you. In a great many ways, your experiences and games appear to be outliers, and sometimes quite extreme outliers. You are playing in a campaign where it has taken 1.6 years of play to advance each level through XP, in effectively a weekly game. So, based on your stated average of ~44 sessions a year, that means it takes a bit over 70 sessions to advance a single level. That is such an extreme outlier, I am not even sure where to place it, to be honest.
And by the way you speak, this sort of thing is the norm? It's wonderful that your experiences work for you, and hopefully bring you joy. But you probably do need to go into these discussions with the understanding that your experiences do appear to be the exception to a considerable amount of rules.
Yes. It means not sober.
There's lots of different degrees of drunk; you seem to be focusing on the more extreme where I'm looking at the mildly inebriated version. But any degree of non-sobriety can be defined as drunk.
In fact it is the same, unless you're using a much more limiting definition of drunk than I am.
Lan-"tonight's game was, after all that, unusually sober"-efan
Actually, I am using drunk as drunk
is defined. I admit, I am terribly fond of using words as defined when I speak/write, so as to avoid confusion should anyone wonder what I mean by any given word. But in all seriousness, go look up the term drunk. In every dictionary, even. In all of them, it is defined as a state in which one's physical and mental faculties are
impaired by an excess of alcoholic drink. Thus, when I say drunk, I actually do in fact mean intoxicated to a point that your faculties are impaired (even mildly impaired, but the metric is impaired). A light buzz-on is
not drunk, since you are not impaired. Sorry, I thought that was clear. But for all future references if you are unsure of how I am using a word, then the baseline assumption should be I am using it as defined, unless I am obviously using slang.
And regardless, it seems to be that you and a couple others assume that consuming non-alcoholic drugs doesn't have the same large spread of nuanced degrees of how affected you as alcohol does. They do. They very much do. And people are functioning all around you every day, doing every manner of activity, on various non-prescription drugs (or prescription drugs taken recreationally, for that matter). And the vast majority of them? You have no bloody idea they are. So lumping them all together as a deal-breaker seems...extreme. And cognitively dissonant. Mostly, I was nitpicking to get you to think about that.