Thomas Shey
Legend
I think we recognize that playing RPGs is a leisure activity often punctuated by humor and lighthearted behavior. That said, for those of us who have enthusiastically engaged in this hobby for most of our lives, I think we deserve to be considered with the same respect and be taken as seriously in our enthusiasm as any other hobbyist in their chosen pastime. Whenever someone asserts something like that, the constant litany of responses about the hobby being silly or "playing elf games" are not helpful, are not entertaining, are irritating, and generally just infantilize the participants of the hobby.
Well, to be fair, probably most other hobbies deserve similar sobriquets. Its just that there are elements of RPG play that can get you into either certain kinds of examination that can convince you there's something more to it than, say, model trains, and people can get carried away about it.
(This does not mean I always appreciate the dismissiveness either; I'm rapidly approaching having been in the hobby for a half century now, but I do understand that there's a certain degree of over-intensity that can sometimes use being hosed down a bit).